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Relationships — This or That? questions

All 50 pairs from the Relationships pack of This or That?, written out in full. Free to read, free to play in your browser.

Two options, one decision, and an argument that follows.

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  1. 1Working in the same home or Working in separate places
  2. 2Sleeping side by side or Sleeping comfortably
  3. 3Silence together or Non-stop conversation
  4. 4An evening at home or An evening out
  5. 5Being able to say no or Keeping everyone happy
  6. 6Leading or Following
  7. 7A joint account or Separate accounts
  8. 8Being the one who plans or Being the one who goes along
  9. 9Starting as friends or Love at first sight
  10. 10The same city or The right person
  11. 11Meeting early on or Meeting at the right time
  12. 12A gift or Time together
  13. 13A surprise or Knowing in advance
  14. 14A long message or A short call
  15. 15Making the first move or Waiting
  16. 16Say everything on your mind or Say none of it
  17. 17Choose to wait or Choose to let go
  18. 18Say who annoyed you today or Say who you missed today
  19. 19Tell us your biggest lie or Tell us your biggest regret
  20. 20Read out your silliest search or Read out your oldest note
  21. 21Be right with nobody knowing or Be wrong but everyone thinks you're right
  22. 22Tell everyone one truth or Hear one truth from everyone
  23. 23Never borrow from anyone or Never lend to anyone
  24. 24Read your last message out loud or Show the last photo in your gallery
  25. 25Tell us the last time you cried or Tell us the last time you were embarrassed
  26. 26Keep the secret and carry it or Tell the secret and feel lighter
  27. 27Agreeing on everything or Being able to argue
  28. 28Posting photos together or Showing nobody
  29. 29Fighting and making up or Never fighting at all
  30. 30Letting it go quietly or Talking it out to the end
  31. 31Leaving your phone unlocked or Nobody touches it
  32. 32Apologising or Making up for it
  33. 33Sending the first message or Waiting for them to write
  34. 34Splitting the bill on a first date or Whoever invited pays
  35. 35Getting to know each other slowly or Saying everything in week one
  36. 36Doing everything together or Having separate hobbies
  37. 37Settling a fight the same day or Sleeping on it
  38. 38Owning up to a small lie or Waiting for it to blow over
  39. 39Talking about past relationships or Keeping the past closed
  40. 40Raising your voice or Going quiet instead
  41. 41Being proved right or Making up right away
  42. 42Meeting for coffee or A long walk
  43. 43Texting every day or Talking rarely but for hours
  44. 44Meeting their friends or Keeping it just the two of you
  45. 45Going to bed at the same time or Each on your own schedule
  46. 46Living together or Keeping separate places
  47. 47Admitting the mistake at once or Explaining yourself first
  48. 48Leaving your phone unlocked or Keeping your passcode to yourself
  49. 49Bringing it up right away or Waiting until you've cooled off
  50. 50Being the first to apologise or Waiting for the apology

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