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Empathy questions

Empati is a two-player game about being on the same wavelength: you both answer the same question without telling each other, then the answers open side by side. Match and it counts; miss and the discussion starts.

These are association questions, not trivia — they start with 'the first thing that comes to mind'. That is why they land best with couples, siblings and friends who go way back.

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1First fruit that comes to mind 🍓
2First movie that comes to mind 🎬
3First country that comes to mind 🌍
4First animal that comes to mind 🐾
5First superpower that comes to mind ⚡
6First color that comes to mind 🎨
7First celebrity that comes to mind ⭐
8First pizza topping that comes to mind 🍕
9A place to go on vacation 🏖️
10First emoji that comes to mind 😎
11First drink that comes to mind 🥤
12First sport that comes to mind ⚽
13First job that comes to mind 💼
14First dessert that comes to mind 🍰
15First car brand that comes to mind 🚗
16First city that comes to mind 🏙️
17First social media app that comes to mind 📱
18First cartoon character that comes to mind 📺
19The animal you'd want to be 🦁
20One word to describe the group 👥
21First TV series that comes to mind 📺
22A breakfast must-have 🍳
23First music genre that comes to mind 🎵
24The app you open most on your phone 📲
25First vegetable that comes to mind 🥕
26First flower that comes to mind 🌸
27First dish that comes to mind 🍽️
28First soup that comes to mind 🥣
29First ice cream flavor that comes to mind 🍦
30First chocolate brand that comes to mind 🍫
31First fast food chain that comes to mind 🍔
32First chip flavor that comes to mind 🥔
33First hot drink that comes to mind ☕
34First spice that comes to mind 🌶️
35First cheese that comes to mind 🧀
36Late-night snack you'd grab 🌙
37Snack to eat at the movies 🍿
38Best thing to eat in summer ☀️
39First actor that comes to mind 🎭
40First singer that comes to mind 🎤
41First song that comes to mind 🎶
42First band that comes to mind 🎸
43First superhero that comes to mind 🦸
44First villain that comes to mind 😈
45First fairy-tale character that comes to mind 🧚
46First video game that comes to mind 🎮
47First game console that comes to mind 🕹️
48First board game that comes to mind 🎲
49First children's game that comes to mind 🪁
50First team that comes to mind ⚽
51First footballer that comes to mind 🥅
52First sports brand that comes to mind 👟
53First phone brand that comes to mind 📱
54First computer brand that comes to mind 💻
55First website that comes to mind 🌐
56First search engine that comes to mind 🔎
57First messaging app that comes to mind 💬
58First streaming platform that comes to mind 🍿
59First shopping website that comes to mind 🛒
60First clothing brand that comes to mind 👕
61First shoe brand that comes to mind 👟
62First supermarket that comes to mind 🛍️
63First store that comes to mind 🏬
64First means of transport that comes to mind 🚲
65First airline that comes to mind ✈️
66First car model that comes to mind 🚘
67First traffic sign that comes to mind 🚦
68First school subject that comes to mind 📚
69First school supply that comes to mind ✏️
70First university that comes to mind 🎓
71First scientist that comes to mind 🔬
72First historical figure that comes to mind 📜
73First planet that comes to mind 🪐
74First natural disaster that comes to mind 🌋
75First weather that comes to mind 🌧️
76First season that comes to mind 🍂
77First month that comes to mind 📅
78First special day that comes to mind 🎉
79First sea that comes to mind 🐚
80First island that comes to mind 🏝️
81First mountain that comes to mind ⛰️
82First tourist spot that comes to mind 🗺️
83Weekend activity to do 🎳
84Something to do on a rainy day ☔
85First thing to do at the beach 🏖️
86First thing to bring to a picnic 🧺
87Pet you'd like to have at home 🐶
88An animal you're afraid of 😱
89First bird that comes to mind 🐦
90First sea creature that comes to mind 🐬
91First insect that comes to mind 🐞
92The one thing you'd bring to a desert island 🏝️
93First thing you'd buy if you won the lottery 💰
94The era you'd travel to in time ⏳
95First thing you'd do if you were invisible for a day 👻
96The thing you never leave home without 🔑
97First thing you do when you wake up ⏰
98Last thing you do before falling asleep 😴
99The room you spend the most time in at home 🏠
100The most common excuse people make 🤥
101First pasta shape that comes to mind 🍝
102First kebab that comes to mind 🥙
103First kind of bread that comes to mind 🍞
104First sauce that comes to mind 🥫
105First jam flavour that comes to mind 🍓
106First nut or seed that comes to mind 🥜
107First breakfast food that comes to mind 🥐
108First street food that comes to mind 🌭
109First cake that comes to mind 🎂
110First cookie that comes to mind 🍪
111First juice that comes to mind 🧃
112First fizzy drink that comes to mind 🥤
113First coffee that comes to mind ☕
114First tea that comes to mind 🫖
115First sandwich filling that comes to mind 🥪
116First salad ingredient that comes to mind 🥗
117First egg dish that comes to mind 🍳
118First pastry that comes to mind 🥨
119First rice dish that comes to mind 🍚
120First fish dish that comes to mind 🐟
121First olive-oil dish that comes to mind 🫒
122First home-cooked meal that comes to mind 🏠
123First gum flavour that comes to mind 🫧
124First frozen food that comes to mind 🧊
125First pickle that comes to mind 🥒
126First appetiser that comes to mind 🥣
127First seafood that comes to mind 🦐
128First vegan dish that comes to mind 🌱
129First healthy snack that comes to mind 🍎
130Something to eat while watching a film 🎬
131Snack for a long road trip 🚗
132Something to eat with coffee ☕
133Something to eat with tea 🫖
134First thing you eat at a birthday party 🎈
135Best thing to drink in winter ❄️
136First thing you drink when it's hot ☀️
137Dish to order for the table with friends 🍽️
138First thing you offer a guest 🚪
139What you buy at the school canteen 🎒
140First thing you buy at the bakery 🥖
141First snack that lands in your shopping basket 🛒
142A must at a Sunday breakfast 🥞
143First thing on the barbecue 🔥
144First thing that goes into a toastie 🥪
145Sauce you eat with fries 🍟
146Topping you add to ice cream 🍦
147What you squeeze into soup 🍋
148A dish you always want seconds of 😋
149A snack you never want to share 🙅
150First piece of furniture that comes to mind 🛋️
151First kitchen item that comes to mind 🍴
152First cleaning product that comes to mind 🧹
153First stationery item that comes to mind 📎
154First personal care product that comes to mind 🧴
155First accessory that comes to mind 🕶️
156First kind of bag that comes to mind 🎒
157First watch brand that comes to mind ⌚
158First perfume scent that comes to mind 🌺
159First hairstyle that comes to mind 💇
160First thing you check before leaving home 🚪
161Something always in your bag 👜
162First thing sitting on your desk 🗒️
163Something always in the fridge 🧊
164Something that sits next to your bed 🛏️
165First thing you notice in a living room 🛋️
166Most-used thing in the bathroom 🛁
167Thing you look for the most when it goes missing 🔍
168Device whose battery dies the fastest 🔋
169First thing you check on your phone 📱
170App you open first when a notification arrives 🔔
171Emoji you use the most ⌨️
172What takes up the most space on your phone 💾
173What you search online the most 🔎
174Thing you turn back home for when you forget it 🏃
175First thing you do on a Sunday 🗓️
176What you listen to on the way to work or school 🎧
177First thing you look for in a power cut 🔦
178First thing you put on in cold weather 🧣
179First place to go when it's hot 🌴
180How many alarms you set to wake up ⏰
181The thing that goes missing most at home 🗝️
182The chore you put off the most 🧺
183Music you put on while cleaning 🧽
184First song you sing in the shower 🚿
185First thing you fix when you look in the mirror 🪞
186First thing forgotten on the shopping list 📝
187First thing you buy in a sale 🏷️
188What you buy with loose change 🪙
189The useless thing in your wallet 👛
190Something you hoard in a drawer 🗄️
191First thing you do out on the balcony 🌇
192First thing you do home alone 🏠
193First excuse you give when you're late ⌛
194First comedy film that comes to mind 😂
195First horror film that comes to mind 👻
196First animated film that comes to mind 🐭
197First sci-fi film that comes to mind 🚀
198First romantic film that comes to mind 💕
199First crime series that comes to mind 🔎
200First game show that comes to mind 🏆
201First children's show that comes to mind 🧸
202First book that comes to mind 📖
203First author that comes to mind ✍️
204First novel character that comes to mind 📚
205First poem that comes to mind 📝
206First musical instrument that comes to mind 🎹
207First concert venue that comes to mind 🎤
208First festival that comes to mind 🎪
209First dance style that comes to mind 💃
210First folk dance that comes to mind 🕺
211First international singer that comes to mind 🌟
212First nostalgic song that comes to mind 📻
213First duet that comes to mind 🎙️
214First video game character that comes to mind 🎮
215First card game that comes to mind 🃏
216First kind of puzzle that comes to mind 🧩
217First toy that comes to mind 🪀
218First collectible that comes to mind 🏷️
219First song you sing at karaoke 🎤
220A song that must play on the dance floor 🪩
221A song for a long drive 🚙
222A film to watch when you're down 🍿
223A series you rewatch again and again 📺
224A series you'd binge in one night 🌙
225The film genre you pick at the cinema 🎟️
226An artist you want to see live 🎫
227A role you'd want to play in a film 🎭
228A series you'd want remade 🎬
229The cartoon you watched most as a kid 📺
230The computer game you played as a kid 🖥️
231First game picked on game night 🎲
232A prize you'd want to win in a contest 🥇
233What makes you change the TV channel 📺
234Lights on or off on film night? 💡
235Which TV character would you want as a friend? 🤝
236A famous voice you'd impersonate 🎙️
237Someone whose poster you'd hang on your wall 🖼️
238A film character you'd be for a day 🎥
239A song that describes your friend group 👥
240The theme song of your life 🎞️
241First river that comes to mind 🏞️
242First lake that comes to mind 🌊
243First waterfall that comes to mind 💦
244First desert that comes to mind 🏜️
245First forest that comes to mind 🌲
246First ocean that comes to mind 🌊
247First continent that comes to mind 🌍
248First capital city that comes to mind 🏛️
249First village that comes to mind 🌾
250First seaside town that comes to mind 🏖️
251First historic building that comes to mind 🏰
252First museum that comes to mind 🖼️
253First bridge that comes to mind 🌉
254First stadium that comes to mind 🏟️
255First amusement park that comes to mind 🎡
256First national park that comes to mind 🌳
257First winter holiday spot that comes to mind ⛷️
258First summer spot that comes to mind 🏝️
259First campsite that comes to mind ⛺
260First hiking trail that comes to mind 🥾
261A city for a weekend getaway 🚆
262A honeymoon destination 💍
263The best place to watch a sunset 🌅
264Where you go when it snows ☃️
265A city you'd pick for a swim 🏊
266A place you'd go to take photos 📷
267A country to travel to alone 🎒
268A city to reach by train 🚂
269A route for a road trip 🛣️
270First thing that goes in the camping bag ⛺
271What you buy before boarding a plane ✈️
272First thing you do in a hotel room 🏨
273First place you visit in a new city 🗺️
274A souvenir you bring back from abroad 🎁
275The thing you must not lose while travelling 🛂
276First thing in the beach bag 🏖️
277An animal you'd spot on a nature walk 🦌
278First plant you'd put in the garden 🌱
279First tree that comes to mind 🌳
280First wildflower that comes to mind 🌼
281First houseplant that comes to mind 🪴
282First stone or mineral that comes to mind 💎
283First sky phenomenon that comes to mind 🌠
284First star that comes to mind ✨
285First constellation that comes to mind 🔭
286First dinosaur that comes to mind 🦖
287First farm animal that comes to mind 🐄
288First forest animal that comes to mind 🦊
289First polar animal that comes to mind 🐧
290First reptile that comes to mind 🦎
291A skill you'd learn for a day 🧠
292A language you'd speak instantly 🗣️
293A job you'd do for one day 💼
294A historical figure you'd like to meet 📜
295A famous person you'd have dinner with 🍽️
296A fictional character you'd travel with 🚗
297A magical item you'd want to own ✨
298What you'd ask for with a single wish 🌠
299The first thing you'd see from the future 🔮
300First word you'd send to the past ⏳
301The one item you'd take to Mars 🚀
302First thing you'd do on the Moon 🌕
303Where you'd fly to for a day 🪽
304An animal you wish could talk 🗣️
305A film universe you'd live in 🎬
306A cartoon house you'd live in 🏡
307The name you'd give your own planet 🪐
308The first job you'd give a robot 🤖
309If you found a time machine, what year would you go to? 📅
310The name you'd give an island 🏝️
311The vehicle you'd use as a superhero 🦸
312Something you'd want free for life ♾️
313The season you'd live in all year 🌤️
314An age you'd live again for a day 🎂
315Your friend group's motto 📣
316What would your friend group be called? 👥
317One emoji that describes the group 🤝
318The first concert you'd all go to 🎤
319A new hobby you'd all pick up 🎯
320The kind of shop you'd open with friends 🏪
321The genre of the film you'd shoot together 🎥
322A city where the whole group would live 🏙️
323The name of the team you'd form with friends 🏆
324A crazy activity to do together 🤪
325The theme for a surprise birthday 🎈
326The group's secret word 🤫
327A birthday gift for a friend 🎁
328First question you ask someone new 💬
329The first thing you look for in a friend 🤝
330The first thing you say to cheer someone up 💛
331The emoji you send to celebrate 🎊
332The place you'd pick to keep a secret 🔐
333One word that describes your life ✨
334First rapper that comes to mind 🎤
335First nice smell that comes to mind 🌸
336First number that comes to mind 🔢
337First scary thing that comes to mind 😱
338First green thing that comes to mind 🟢
339First sports car that comes to mind 🏎️
340First piece of jewellery that comes to mind 💍
341First street food that comes to mind 🌯
342First heavy thing that comes to mind 🏋️
343First boy's name that comes to mind 👦
344First cold country that comes to mind ❄️
345First fast animal that comes to mind 🐆
346First hot country that comes to mind ☀️
347First alien that comes to mind 👽
348First holiday spot that comes to mind 🏖️
349First pet that comes to mind 🐶
350First luxury brand that comes to mind 💎
351First day of the week that comes to mind 📆
352First princess that comes to mind 👑
353First expensive thing that comes to mind 💰
354First restaurant that comes to mind 🍴
355First soft thing that comes to mind 🧸
356First holiday that comes to mind 🎊
357First beach that comes to mind 🏝️
358First proverb that comes to mind 💬
359First European country that comes to mind 🇪🇺
360First red thing that comes to mind 🔴
361First wonder of the world that comes to mind 🗿
362First bad smell that comes to mind 🤢
363First wild animal that comes to mind 🦁
364First round thing that comes to mind ⚪
365First fairy tale that comes to mind 📖
366First girl's name that comes to mind 👧
367First gadget that comes to mind 🔌
368First influencer that comes to mind 🤳
369First hobby that comes to mind 🎨
370First comedian that comes to mind 🤣
371Hardest part of a long-distance relationship 🛫
372First unforgivable thing that comes to mind 🚷
373What "I'm fine" really means 🙃
374First line said in a couple's fight 🗯️
375Chore couples argue about most 🧺
376First taste you both share 🎨
377First meal you cook together 🍝
378First movie you watch together 🍿
379First surprise that comes to mind 🎉
380First thing you say meeting their family 🏠
381First thing that sparks jealousy 👁️‍🗨️
382What ends a relationship 💔
383First shared dream that comes to mind 🌈
384First holiday you take as a couple 🏖️
385First anniversary gift that comes to mind 🎀
386Relationship must-have 💎
387First couple habit that comes to mind ☕
388Fastest way to make up 🤝
389First thing couples fight about ⚡
390What makes you reread a text ten times 🔁
391First excuse to say "I thought of you" 💐
392How you save them in your contacts 📖
393First pet name that comes to mind 🐣
394First thing you'd post on a joint account 👫
395First couple-photo pose that comes to mind 📸
396When it's time to go public with a relationship 📅
397First notification that makes your heart jump 🔔
398How you react to your crush's latest post 💬
399Topic you open when the chat dries up 🧊
400First profile bio that comes to mind ✒️
401Biggest fear when liking an old post 😰
402First song for a shared playlist 🎧
403What you send to keep the chat alive 🎬
404First alternative to "I miss you" 🫶
405The text that goes to the wrong person 😱
406Reaction you send to your crush's story 🔥
407First voice-note topic that comes to mind 🎙️
408The line that kills a conversation 🔚
409First flirty line that comes to mind 💋
410The text sent at 2 a.m. 🌃
411Excuse for not blocking an ex 🔓
412First good-morning text that comes to mind ☀️
413How it feels when they view your story but don't reply 😐
414First alternative to "what's up" 💭
415The message you typed and deleted ✍️
416First emoji you send your crush 💕
417Worst moment to leave someone on read 👻
418Excuse for replying late 🕐
419First "goodnight" text that comes to mind 🌙
420First romantic gesture that comes to mind 🎁
421First excuse to say "call me" ☎️
422What you do when caught staring at your crush 👁️
423First dating advice that comes to mind 🗝️
424Prep you do before a first date 💅
425What you do when you forget someone's name 😬
426First question you ask when you meet ❓
427Place to avoid on a first date 🙅
428First date activity that comes to mind 🎡
429What saves a first date 🍀
430First thing you say after being turned down 😅
431First way to ask someone out that comes to mind 💌
432Profile photo must-have 🖼️
433First thing you check on a dating app 📲
434Biggest lie told on a first date 🤥
435First icebreaker question that comes to mind ❄️
436Sweetest way to give someone your number 📱
437First compliment that comes to mind 🌟
438First move that gives away a crush 💫
439First-date outfit that comes to mind 👗
440Worst possible time for a first date ⏰
441Topic to never bring up on a first date 🚫
442What ruins a first impression 🙈
443First thing you notice about someone 👀
444First pick-up line that comes to mind 🎤
445Most-used flirting emoji 😉
446First word of a first message 💬
447Coffee or tea — on a first date ☕
448First-date must-have 🌹
449First date spot that comes to mind 💘
450Who pays the bill on a first date 🧾
451First definition of love that comes to mind 💞
452First movie genre for a couple's night 🎥
453First gift you'd give that comes to mind 📿
454First colour of love that comes to mind ❤️
455First romantic weather that comes to mind 🌧️
456Best season for a couples trip 🍁
457First place for a first kiss that comes to mind 🌉
458First zodiac sign that comes to mind for love ♈
459First couple dance that comes to mind 💃
460First romantic scent that comes to mind 🕊️
461First sweet treat that comes to mind 🍫
462First flower that comes to mind 🌷
463First Valentine's gift that comes to mind 💝
464First romantic city that comes to mind 🏙️
465First love-song artist that comes to mind 🎤
466First TV couple that comes to mind 📺
467First romantic movie line that comes to mind 🎞️
468First couple emoji that comes to mind 💑
469Movie night or a walk 🎬
470A thank-you never said out loud 🙏
471First reason to give a second chance 🔁
472What cures a broken heart 🩹
473First "actually…" sentence that comes to mind 💬
474Lesson a relationship teaches you 🎓
475Age of your first love 🎂
476Thing you don't delete after a break-up 🖼️
477First reason to get back together ↩️
478Craziest thing done for love 🌪️
479First romantic risk that comes to mind 🎲
480Thing you'd never confess in a relationship 🕳️
481First jealous move that comes to mind 🎯
482Reason to look at a partner's phone 🔍
483First fake-smile moment that comes to mind 😶
484Biggest dating mistake 🧨
485First way to say sorry that comes to mind 🥺
486Only thing worth ending a relationship over ⚖️
487First "the first time" memory that comes to mind ✨
488Relationship detail you keep from friends 🙊
489First excuse that comes to mind 🎭
490How to show you're not interested 🚪
491First secret admiration that comes to mind 🤫
492Most embarrassing dating memory 😳
493First "I wish I had" moment that comes to mind ⏳
494First thing you do after a break-up 💇
495First break-up line that comes to mind 🍂
496Thing an ex leaves behind 📦
497Dream job of your celebrity crush 🎬
498First love you never told anyone about 🔒
499First confession that comes to mind 🫣
500Thing you'd still do together in 50 years 👵
501First couple ritual that comes to mind 🌛
502What changes most after getting married 🔄
503First honeymoon destination that comes to mind ✈️
504Wedding must-have 🎊
505First proposal spot that comes to mind 💍
506Line you must never say to a partner 🤐
507First relationship red flag that comes to mind 🚩
508Thing you never share with a partner 🔐
509First house rule for a couple 📜
510First thing you notice after moving in together 🔑
511First couple argument that comes to mind 🥊
512First thing couples do in the morning 🌅
513First "our song" moment that comes to mind 💿
514Most annoying habit a partner can have 😤
515Little thing you miss most in a relationship 🕯️
516First pet you'd get together 🐾
517Something to learn together 📚
518First couples costume that comes to mind 🎭
519Safest gift for a partner 🎁
520First love song that comes to mind 🎵

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