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OK or Not OK? is the party game where a scenario appears on screen, everyone secretly votes OK or NOT OK, then all answers reveal at once. No points, no winner — just the moment you discover where your group actually disagrees.

Below is the complete set organised by pack: Relationships, Friendship, Family, Money and Bold. Scroll through to spark a debate at dinner, or skip straight to the game and let the app serve them up.

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Relationship50 questions

  1. 1Is it OK if your partner has different religious beliefs than you?
  2. 2Is it OK for a stranger to ask your partner to dance?
  3. 3Is it OK for your partner to stay friends with their ex?
  4. 4Is it OK to look through your partner's phone if you know the passcode?
  5. 5Is it OK for your partner to go on holiday without you?
  6. 6Is it OK for your partner to have dinner alone with their best friend of the opposite sex?
  7. 7Is it OK for your partner to follow their ex on social media?
  8. 8Is it OK to always be able to see your partner's location?
  9. 9Is it OK to know your partner's passwords?
  10. 10Is it OK for a couple to live in separate homes?
  11. 11Is it OK to go through your partner's phone to plan a surprise?
  12. 12Is it OK to tell your partner you don't like one of their friends?
  13. 13Is it OK for your partner to stay out late without checking in?
  14. 14Is it OK to go to sleep without resolving an argument?
  15. 15Is it OK to ask your partner about their past relationships?
  16. 16Is it OK to keep a gift from an ex?
  17. 17Is it OK for your partner's family to weigh in on your relationship?
  18. 18Is it OK to tell your partner small white lies?
  19. 19Is it OK for your partner to keep photos of their ex?
  20. 20Is it OK to be together a year without ever discussing the future?
  21. 21Is it OK for your partner to ask you to stop seeing a friend out of jealousy?
  22. 22Is it OK to read your partner's private messages?
  23. 23Is a long-distance relationship OK?
  24. 24Is it OK to text your partner “where are you?” five times a day?
  25. 25Is it OK for your partner to introduce you as “a friend”?
  26. 26Is it OK for your partner to hang out with your friends without you?
  27. 27Is it OK to ask “who's that?” when your partner gets a message?
  28. 28Is it OK to end a relationship over text?
  29. 29Is it OK to stay friends after a breakup?
  30. 30Is it OK to talk to your partner about your ex?
  31. 31Is it OK for your partner to keep putting off introducing you to their family?
  32. 32Is it OK to move to another city for your partner's career?
  33. 33Is it OK if your partner forgets your birthday?
  34. 34Is it OK for your partner to get a tattoo without telling you?
  35. 35Is it OK for your partner to comment on your weight?
  36. 36Is it OK to bring up old mistakes during a fight?
  37. 37Is it OK to give your partner the silent treatment for two days?
  38. 38Is it OK to read your partner's diary?
  39. 39Is it OK for your partner to have a say in what you wear?
  40. 40Is it OK to talk about exes on a first date?
  41. 41Is it OK for your partner to tell your secret to their best friend?
  42. 42Is it OK for your partner to go to a bachelor/bachelorette party?
  43. 43Is it OK to go to the same party separately from your partner?
  44. 44Is it OK for your partner to answer your phone when you're not there?
  45. 45Is it OK to be a year in and still not have said “I love you”?
  46. 46Is it OK for your partner to flirt with someone else as a joke?
  47. 47Is it OK for your partner to attend their ex's wedding?
  48. 48Is it OK to work at the same place as your partner?
  49. 49Is it OK for your partner to have a friendship they keep from you?
  50. 50Is it OK for a couple to spend every weekend apart?

Friends50 questions

  1. 1Is it OK if a friend hasn't paid you back in three months?
  2. 2Is it OK for a friend to cancel plans at the last minute?
  3. 3Is it OK for a friend to meet your partner one-on-one?
  4. 4Is it OK for a friend to post your photo without asking?
  5. 5Is it OK to tell a friend you don't like their partner?
  6. 6Is it OK for a friend to share your secret with another friend?
  7. 7Is it OK for a friend to leave your message unanswered for two days?
  8. 8Is it OK for your friend group to make plans without you?
  9. 9Is it OK if a friend forgets your birthday?
  10. 10Is it OK to ask a friend for a loan?
  11. 11Is it OK to stay the night at a friend's place unannounced?
  12. 12Is it OK to be friends with a friend's ex?
  13. 13Is it OK for a friend to tell you you've gained weight?
  14. 14Is it OK for a friend to use your phone without asking?
  15. 15Is it OK for a friend to be late every single time?
  16. 16Is it OK to lie to a friend and go to a different plan instead?
  17. 17Is it OK for a friend to always let you pick up the bill?
  18. 18Is it OK for a friend to borrow your clothes without asking?
  19. 19Is it OK for a friend to remove you from a group chat?
  20. 20Is it OK for a friend to complain about you to someone else?
  21. 21Is it OK to learn a friend's big news from social media?
  22. 22Is it OK for a friend to be closer to their partner than to you?
  23. 23Is it OK for a friend to not invite you on a trip?
  24. 24Is it OK to tell a friend flat out “that's a bad idea”?
  25. 25Is it OK to skip a friend's wedding?
  26. 26Is it OK to show up at a friend's place empty-handed?
  27. 27Is it OK to track a friend's location?
  28. 28Is it OK to find and look at a friend's secret account?
  29. 29Is it OK to tell a friend about a fight with your partner?
  30. 30Is it OK to tell a friend your salary?
  31. 31Is it OK for the rich friend to always pay?
  32. 32Is it OK to start a political debate in your friend group?
  33. 33Is it OK for a friend to meet your family without telling you?
  34. 34Is it OK to throw a surprise party for a friend who said they don't want one?
  35. 35Is it OK for a friendship to go months without contact?
  36. 36Is it OK for a friend to disappear without an explanation?
  37. 37Is it OK for a friend to look the other way while you cheat on a test?
  38. 38Is it OK for a friend to regift something you gave them?
  39. 39Is it OK for two friends you introduced to become close without you?
  40. 40Is it OK for a friend to joke about you in front of others?
  41. 41Is it OK for a friend to make a decision on your behalf without asking?
  42. 42Is it OK for a friend to walk around your home with shoes on?
  43. 43Is it OK to be interested in the same person as a friend?
  44. 44Is it OK for a friend to tell you to break up with your partner?
  45. 45Is it OK to start a business with a friend?
  46. 46Is it OK to move in with your best friend?
  47. 47Is it OK to never return something you borrowed from a friend?
  48. 48Is it OK for a friend to jokingly flirt with your partner?
  49. 49Is it OK to only text a friend when you need something?
  50. 50Is it OK to date a friend's ex?

Family50 questions

  1. 1Is it OK for your family to question your partner about your relationship?
  2. 2Is it OK for a parent to enter your room without knocking?
  3. 3Is it OK to move to another city without consulting your family?
  4. 4Is it OK for a sibling to wear your clothes without asking?
  5. 5Is it OK to skip visiting family on a major holiday?
  6. 6Is it OK to live in the same neighborhood as your family?
  7. 7Is it OK for your parents to follow your social media accounts?
  8. 8Is it OK to stay in a relationship your family disapproves of?
  9. 9Is it OK to give part of your salary to your parents?
  10. 10Is it OK to expect your parents to pay for the wedding?
  11. 11Is it OK for relatives to ask “when are you getting married?”
  12. 12Is it OK to lie to your family about going on a trip?
  13. 13Is it OK for a sibling to tell your secret to the family?
  14. 14Is it OK for parents to set a curfew for their 30-year-old?
  15. 15Is it OK for Sunday family dinner to be mandatory?
  16. 16Is it OK for your parents to invite your partner over without you?
  17. 17Is it OK to not tell your family you've broken up?
  18. 18Is it OK for in-laws to drop by unannounced?
  19. 19Is it OK to argue about politics with your parents?
  20. 20Is it OK to share a bank account with your parents?
  21. 21Is it OK for your parents to have a key to your home?
  22. 22Is it OK to criticize your sibling's partner?
  23. 23Is it OK for your parents to know your salary?
  24. 24Is it OK to be expected to vacation with family every year?
  25. 25Is it OK to make family traditions mandatory for your kids?
  26. 26Is it OK for grandparents to raise your child by different rules when babysitting?
  27. 27Is it OK to mute the family group chat?
  28. 28Is it OK for your parents to talk about you with your partner?
  29. 29Is it OK to call off a marriage because your family objects?
  30. 30Is it OK to say “no” to your parents?
  31. 31Is it OK for an adult to live with their parents?
  32. 32Is it OK to count on an inheritance from your family?
  33. 33Is it OK for parents to give siblings different amounts of financial help?
  34. 34Is it OK to be on your phone during a family meal?
  35. 35Is it OK to expect your partner to bring a gift when first meeting your family?
  36. 36Is it OK for your family to decide your career path?
  37. 37Is it OK for a parent to tidy your room while you're away?
  38. 38Is it OK to not speak to your family for a week after a fight?
  39. 39Is it OK for your parents to change the house rules when staying at your place?
  40. 40Is it OK for your family to vet your friends?
  41. 41Is it OK to take financial help from your parents in your thirties?
  42. 42Is it OK if a sibling borrows money and never pays it back?
  43. 43Is it OK for your parents to say they expect grandchildren?
  44. 44Is it OK to hide from your family that you live with your partner?
  45. 45Is it OK for your parents to expect to live with you when they're old?
  46. 46Is it OK to tell your partner a family secret?
  47. 47Is it OK for your family to comment on your social media posts?
  48. 48Is it OK to tell your friends about family problems?
  49. 49Is it OK for grandparents to post photos of your child without asking?
  50. 50Is it OK to give holiday money to adult relatives?

Money50 questions

  1. 1Is it OK to tell your partner how much their gift cost?
  2. 2Is it OK to split the bill evenly at a big table?
  3. 3Is it OK to disappear to the bathroom when the bill arrives?
  4. 4Is it OK to split the bill on a first date?
  5. 5Is it OK for a married couple to keep separate bank accounts?
  6. 6Is it OK to keep track of your partner's spending?
  7. 7Is it OK to keep secret savings from your partner?
  8. 8Is it OK to leave no tip?
  9. 9Is it OK to tip even after bad service?
  10. 10Is it OK to ask a friend to pay back what they owe?
  11. 11Is it OK to never tell anyone your salary?
  12. 12Is it OK to compare salaries with a coworker?
  13. 13Is it OK to give money instead of a gift?
  14. 14Is it OK to sell a gift you received?
  15. 15Is it OK to give an object instead of cash at a wedding?
  16. 16Is it OK for whoever earns less to pay less?
  17. 17Is it OK to ask for something in writing when lending money?
  18. 18Is it OK to have access to your partner's bank account?
  19. 19Is it OK to fund a holiday with a credit card?
  20. 20Is it OK to spend your whole paycheck every month?
  21. 21Is it OK to spend a month's salary on shoes?
  22. 22Is it OK to turn down an expensive gift?
  23. 23Is it OK to take pens and paper home from work?
  24. 24Is it OK to say nothing if you're given too much change?
  25. 25Is it OK to have a rule of never lending money to friends?
  26. 26Is it OK to track exactly who paid what when living together?
  27. 27Is it OK to move into a place you can barely afford?
  28. 28Is it OK to spend on experiences instead of saving?
  29. 29Is it OK to tell a friend “you didn't need to buy that”?
  30. 30Is it OK to splurge on yourself as a reward?
  31. 31Is it OK to make chores a condition for a child's allowance?
  32. 32Is it OK to argue about brand choices in a shared grocery run?
  33. 33Is it OK to pay only for exactly what you ordered?
  34. 34Is it OK to hide from your partner how much money your family gives you?
  35. 35Is it OK to rent an outfit you'll wear only once?
  36. 36Is it OK to say no to an expensive group trip?
  37. 37Is it OK to hide it when you're struggling financially?
  38. 38Is it OK to not leave your children a large inheritance?
  39. 39Is it OK to do professional work for a friend for free?
  40. 40Is it OK to go into debt for a wedding?
  41. 41Is it OK to buy something you don't need just because it's on sale?
  42. 42Is it OK to back your partner quitting a stable job for a risky dream?
  43. 43Is it OK to always pay bills on the last possible day?
  44. 44Is it OK to give a friend money without expecting it back?
  45. 45Is it OK to check your housemate's receipts?
  46. 46Is it OK to give away part of your income regularly?
  47. 47Is it OK to not match the value of a friend's expensive gift?
  48. 48Is it OK to put all your savings into crypto or stocks?
  49. 49Is it OK to give a friend investment advice?
  50. 50Is it OK to pay the bill at your own birthday dinner?

Bold49 questions

  1. 1Is it OK to marry someone of a different faith?
  2. 2Is it OK to live together before marriage?
  3. 3Is it OK to never want children?
  4. 4Is an open relationship OK?
  5. 5Is emotional cheating still cheating?
  6. 6Is it OK to give someone a second chance after cheating?
  7. 7Is it OK to know a friend is being cheated on and stay silent?
  8. 8Is a relationship with a big age gap OK?
  9. 9Is it OK to be with someone whose politics are very different?
  10. 10Is it OK to marry someone your family opposes?
  11. 11Is it OK to keep parts of your past from your partner?
  12. 12Is it OK to ask your partner their number of past partners?
  13. 13Is it OK to be brutally honest about your partner's looks?
  14. 14Is it OK to get cosmetic surgery?
  15. 15Is it OK to keep going to therapy to yourself?
  16. 16Is it OK to push your partner to go to therapy?
  17. 17Is it OK to take part in a religious ritual you don't believe in?
  18. 18Is it OK to let your child choose their own beliefs?
  19. 19Is it OK to differ from your family on matters of faith?
  20. 20Is it OK to search online for your partner's past relationships?
  21. 21Is it OK to hide a terminal diagnosis from the patient?
  22. 22Is it OK to end a friendship without explaining why?
  23. 23Is it OK to cut off contact with your family entirely?
  24. 24Is it OK to say behind someone's back what you can't say to their face?
  25. 25Is it OK to keep a secret to protect someone from being hurt?
  26. 26Is it OK to skip a funeral?
  27. 27Is it OK to use legal loopholes to pay less tax?
  28. 28Is it OK to exaggerate your experience in a job interview?
  29. 29Is it OK to quit a job without notice?
  30. 30Is it OK to look very different online than in real life?
  31. 31Is it OK to tell someone's family their secret to protect them?
  32. 32Is it OK to keep your own surname after marriage?
  33. 33Is it OK to sign a prenup?
  34. 34Is it OK to choose living alone after a long relationship?
  35. 35Is it OK to joke about someone's religion or politics?
  36. 36Is it OK to tell someone close “you drink too much”?
  37. 37Is it OK to read a loved one's diary because you're worried?
  38. 38Is it OK to choose to raise a child alone?
  39. 39Is it OK to keep arguing to change someone's mind?
  40. 40Is it OK to stay quiet while someone close makes a bad investment?
  41. 41Is it OK to plan your own funeral and will already?
  42. 42Is it OK to push someone close to lose weight?
  43. 43Is it OK to take off travelling for a year without telling anyone?
  44. 44Is it OK to say you're sick to skip an invitation?
  45. 45Is it OK to demand to know a health issue your partner kept from you?
  46. 46Is it OK to move an ageing parent into a care home?
  47. 47Is it OK to make a huge life decision without consulting anyone?
  48. 48Is it OK to tell a friend their relationship looks unhealthy?
  49. 49Is it OK for everyone in a family to know each other's income?

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