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Each quiz takes a couple of minutes and ends with a short read on the type you came out as. Below are all the questions, their options and every result type, so you can see what is inside before you take one.

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In short: The relationship quizzes are short multiple-choice quizzes about one part of a relationship each: your love language, how you fall in love, how you behave when jealous, how you get over a breakup. Some are solo, some are answered separately by both partners and compared. They are free on encokkim.com.

Short quizzes about love language, jealousy and how you attach.

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What are you like in a relationship?

Who do you become when you love? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1When do you say you like someone?

    • As soon as I'm sure
    • Once they say it first
    • I show it, I don't say it
    • I wait for the right moment
  2. 2What do you think when a reply comes late?

    • They're busy, it'll pass
    • I wonder if something's wrong
    • I reply late too
    • I ask straight out
  3. 3What do you do mid-argument?

    • I say what I have to say
    • I go quiet, then talk later
    • I try to calm things down
    • I leave the subject for the next day
  4. 4How do you show love?

    • By saying it
    • By doing, in little things
    • By making time
    • By planning and preparing
  5. 5What do you think about the relationship's future?

    • I let it flow
    • I've got a plan in my head
    • I try not to think about it
    • I talk it out and settle it
  6. 6What do you do if the other person moves too fast?

    • It makes me uneasy
    • I slow things down
    • I speed up too
    • It doesn't bother me
  7. 7What do you do when you're hurt?

    • I say it in the moment
    • I swallow it
    • I put distance between us
    • I talk once I've calmed down
  8. 8What matters most to you in a relationship?

    • Trust
    • Being able to speak openly
    • Keeping my own space
    • Looking in the same direction

🌿 The calm harbour

You let the storm pass without making it bigger; the person beside you feels safe. Even in a fight you don't need to raise your voice. Your shadow side: trying to calm everything down, you close some subjects without ever discussing them.

🔥 An open book

You don't hide what you feel and you don't make anyone guess. That moves the relationship forward by the shortest route. When trouble comes, you're the first to speak. Your shadow side: if the other person isn't at your speed, what you say catches them unprepared.

🌙 Quiet love

You say it with what you do, not with words; whoever notices is very lucky. You respect your own space and your partner's. Your shadow side: when unsaid things pile up, the other person has already built a different story in their head.

🛡️ The careful heart

You don't open the door straight away, and there's a good reason for that; but once you trust, you trust completely. Not believing people right away protects you from needless disappointment. Your shadow side: testing as you go, the other person starts to feel like they're sitting an exam.

🗺️ The roadmap

You want the relationship to go somewhere, and you genuinely put in the work. It isn't uncertainty that tires you, it's the absence of a plan. Your shadow side: anything that doesn't match the timetable in your head feels to you like "this is going wrong", when it's only going differently.

What are you like in a relationship?

What's your love language?

How do you give and receive love? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1You've had a hard day. What helps most?

    • Hearing "I'm here for you"
    • A hug
    • Clearing the evening for you
    • Finding dinner already made
  2. 2Your birthday. What makes you happiest?

    • A long letter
    • A whole day together
    • A gift with thought behind it
    • Them handling everything
  3. 3How do you show love the most?

    • By saying it
    • By taking things off their plate
    • By bringing little things
    • By staying close and touching
  4. 4You haven't seen each other for a while. What do you miss most?

    • Their voice
    • Their smell, their touch
    • The ordinary moments together
    • The little things they left behind
  5. 5You fought, now you're making up. What do you need?

    • A clear apology
    • Them holding my hand
    • Them making time to sit and talk
    • Them having fixed something
  6. 6Which one hurts you more?

    • Never hearing a compliment
    • Them being distant
    • Them on their phone
    • Them forgetting a special day
  7. 7An evening at home together. What does the ideal one look like?

    • Being delighted by a little thing they brought
    • Curling up with a film
    • Cooking together
    • Time with no phones
  8. 8What do you love doing most for them?

    • Lightening their load
    • Bringing something I know they'll love
    • Telling them how I feel
    • Just being there

💌 Words

The sentences you hear stay with you; one good line can turn your day around. And you say things too. You put what you feel into words. Your shadow side: you read someone's silence as not loving you, when they may simply be writing it in another language.

Time together

Attention given to you is worth more than any gift; the moments the phone goes away are the real present. You collect ordinary evenings spent together. Your shadow side: when the other person is busy, you read it straight as indifference.

🤲 Touch

Closeness is built through the body for you: one hug beats ten sentences. You feel distance instantly. Your shadow side: the moment touch drops off you read it as "something's wrong", when sometimes it's just tiredness.

🛠️ Acts of effort

Not words but deeds; for you love is shown by taking a job off someone's hands. Carrying another person's load comes naturally to you. Your shadow side: when what you do goes unnoticed you swallow it instead of saying so, and start to feel owed.

🎁 A gift

It's not the price of a gift but the thought behind it that lands with you. Even something small says "you were on my mind". Your shadow side: forgiving a forgotten date takes you a long time, while the other person often doesn't even realise.

What's your love language?

How do you fall in love?

Do you fall in love fast or slowly? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1You met someone and they caught your eye. What's your next move?

    • I text right away
    • I wait to know them a bit
    • I ask mutual friends
    • I let it flow
  2. 2What goes through your mind on a first date?

    • This could be the one
    • Let's see where it goes
    • I should ask a lot of questions
    • Let's not rush
  3. 3When do you say "I'm in love"?

    • In the first weeks
    • Months later
    • After getting through a hard day together
    • One day I just notice
  4. 4The other person is moving faster than you. What do you do?

    • I speed up too
    • I hit the brakes
    • I ask why they're rushing
    • It doesn't bother me
  5. 5How did a past disappointment change you?

    • I became more careful
    • It changed nothing
    • I move slower now
    • I don't dwell on it
  6. 6What do your friends say about you?

    • Falls fast
    • Hard to open up
    • Won't move without being sure
    • Says what will be will be
  7. 7The relationship is stuck in an undefined place. What do you do?

    • I talk it out and settle it
    • I wait, it settles
    • I give it time
    • I can't wait, I ask right away
  8. 8What is love to you?

    • Something that hits all at once
    • Something that grows with time
    • Trust that gets earned
    • The right timing

All at once

Your heart decides fast and never second-guesses it. When you start to love someone, they never have to guess. Your shadow side: you pin what you feel onto someone you barely know, then compare the real person with the one in your head.

🌱 Little by little

Love doesn't explode in you, it accumulates. Which is why what you build usually holds. You don't trust closeness that was rushed. Your shadow side: moving this slowly, the other person can read it as disinterest and back away.

🔍 By being sure

You understand first, then attach; your questions aren't coldness, they're how serious you are. And when you trust, you trust fully. Your shadow side: checking as you go, the other person ends up feeling examined.

🌊 By letting it flow

You don't force it. What will be will be, and that ease relaxes whoever is with you. You live the relationship instead of scripting it. Your shadow side: because you never make anything explicit, some relationships quietly end before they ever begin.

How do you fall in love?

How jealous are you?

Everyone gets a little jealous. And you? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1Your partner is meeting an old friend. How do you feel?

    • It doesn't bother me
    • Kim olduğunu sorarım
    • It unsettles me but I don't say so
    • I say that it bothers me
  2. 2You see a notification pop up on their phone. What do you do?

    • I don't even look
    • Kim diye sorarım
    • I wonder, but I don't ask
    • I bring it up directly
  3. 3Someone's like on social media catches your eye. What do you do?

    • I scroll on past
    • Profiline bakarım
    • It stays on my mind
    • I ask about it as a joke
  4. 4What do you do when you feel jealous?

    • I speak up
    • I don't show it
    • Önce araştırırım
    • I get over it on my own
  5. 5What is jealousy to you?

    • Part of love
    • A sign of insecurity
    • Anlamak istemek
    • Something hard to say out loud
  6. 6What do you do if your partner gets jealous of you?

    • I quite like it
    • It bothers me
    • Nedenini sorarım
    • I say nothing
  7. 7How curious are you about their past?

    • Never
    • Hepsini
    • I listen if they tell me
    • I ask, I don't hide it
  8. 8What's your first move when you feel uneasy?

    • I talk
    • I go quiet
    • Delil ararım
    • I distract myself

🧘 Calm trust

You don't rattle easily; you give your trust until someone breaks it. The person beside you can breathe. Your shadow side: even when something genuinely bothers you, you stay quiet so as "not to overreact".

📣 The open type

You don't hide that you're jealous, and that's actually healthy: things land on the table before they grow. The other person always knows where they stand. Your shadow side: voicing every discomfort the instant you feel it can start to feel like control.

🌫️ The quiet type

You turn it over inside and don't let it show; you never put anyone through an interrogation. That makes you a respectful partner. Your shadow side: the unsaid piles up, and one day it all comes out in a completely unrelated argument.

🕵️ The curious type

Uncertainty bothers you far more than jealousy does; once you know, you relax. Nobody notices detail like you. Your shadow side: the more you dig, the less relief you get. You just find a new question.

How jealous are you?

How do you get over a breakup?

How do you recover after a breakup? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1What do you do on day one?

    • I gather my friends
    • I turn my phone off
    • I bury myself in work
    • I try to work out what happened
  2. 2What do you do with the photos?

    • I delete them all
    • I move them to an archive
    • I leave them where they are
    • We look at them with friends and talk
  3. 3What happens to mutual friends?

    • We keep seeing each other
    • I keep my distance for a while
    • Doesn't matter
    • I wonder who knows what
  4. 4What goes through your mind before sleeping at night?

    • Where did we go wrong
    • What I'll do tomorrow
    • I don't want to talk to anyone
    • Who can I tell
  5. 5How long does it take you to bounce back?

    • Fast — I keep busy
    • It passes once I understand it
    • It lasts a long while
    • Talking about it gets me through
  6. 6How do you handle contact with your ex?

    • I cut it off completely
    • I'll talk if I need to
    • I don't reach out, I wait
    • We can stay friends
  7. 7When do you open up to someone new?

    • Right away — life goes on
    • Once I understand myself
    • After a long while
    • When my friends talk me into it
  8. 8Looking back, what do you think?

    • I learned a lot
    • I try not to think about it
    • Something in me still aches
    • It was a good story, I tell it

🫂 By sharing it

You say what hurts and it genuinely lightens you; you heal among people. Because you're not alone, you don't fall into the pit either. Your shadow side: after telling the story enough times, telling it starts to replace living it.

🌑 By turning inward

You carry the pain without showing it to anyone; you need to heal on your own and there's nothing shameful in that. You don't burden a soul. Your shadow side: because you burden no one, no one can help either, and getting back on your feet takes longer than it should.

🏃 By staying busy

You keep moving because you know that if you stop you'll fall; in this period you're at your most productive. Life really does go on. Your shadow side: when the rushing ends, everything you postponed knocks on the door at once.

🧠 By understanding it

You can't let it go until you've worked out what happened; that's why you rarely make the same mistake twice. What you learn about yourself sticks. Your shadow side: while trying to explain everything, it takes you a long time to accept that some things have no explanation.

How do you get over a breakup?

What do you do in an argument?

Which side of you shows up in a fight? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1You hear a snide remark. What's your first move?

    • I answer back right away
    • I swallow it and let the moment pass
    • I cut it with a joke
    • I ask what they actually meant
  2. 2The argument heats up. What does your voice do?

    • It rises, I know it does
    • An odd joke slips out of me
    • I deliberately bring it down
    • It cuts out, nothing comes
  3. 3You realise you were wrong. What now?

    • I say it straight away, no dragging
    • I admit it, but days later
    • I admit it as a joke
    • I work out exactly where I slipped
  4. 4You're right in the middle of an argument. What's your escape plan?

    • I leave the room and be alone
    • I won't drop it until it's finished
    • I suggest a break, then we continue
    • I show something funny and break the mood
  5. 5How does making up work for you?

    • With a joke, without a word about it
    • By sitting down and going through it point by point
    • I hug them right away and it passes
    • On its own, with time
  6. 6The same topic comes up for the third time. What do you do?

    • I say let's find a permanent fix
    • I say plainly that I'm fed up
    • I go quiet again, it's not worth it
    • I say it's officially our classic now
  7. 7How do you open a difficult subject?

    • Face to face, right now
    • I write it, I can't say it out loud
    • We sit down once things are calm
    • I go in laughing
  8. 8After it's over, what stays in your head?

    • What I said — I remember all of it
    • The things I couldn't say
    • The bit where we laughed
    • What we're going to change from now on

🗣️ The Straight Talker

You don't bottle things up: whatever you feel, you say it there and then, so nobody next to you has to wonder what you think. Your shadow side: speed spoils the wording, and later you end up saying "that's not how I meant it".

🤐 The One Who Holds It In

You go quiet mid-argument because you're afraid of saying something cutting, and that makes you the calm side. Your shadow side: unsaid things don't vanish, they pile up and pour out days later over something unrelated.

😅 The Deflector

When tension rises you drop the temperature with a joke; nobody can fight with you for long, and that's a skill. Your shadow side: every joke postpones a topic, and sooner or later the other person starts feeling unheard.

🧭 The Fixer

You're not trying to win the argument, you're trying to end it; you're always the first to ask "so what do we do". Your shadow side: sometimes the other person doesn't want a solution, just to be understood. And by then you've already listed the action points.

What do you do in an argument?

Which role is yours at home?

What are you like to live with? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1You walk in the door. What's the first thing you do?

    • I tidy whatever's out of place
    • I drop my bag and flop on the sofa
    • I head straight for the kitchen
    • I check the broken thing that caught my eye
  2. 2The dishes have piled up. What happens with you?

    • They never get the chance to pile up
    • They can wait another day
    • I clear the lot after cooking
    • Loading the machine is my job
  3. 3Something in the house breaks. What do you do?

    • I open it up and have a go myself
    • I put it on the list and deal with it in turn
    • It stays like that for a while
    • I look after the food until someone comes to fix it
  4. 4Guests are coming in two hours. What do you do?

    • I do the whole place top to bottom
    • I get in the kitchen, the rest can wait
    • I quickly fix whatever's broken
    • I stuff the mess into one room
  5. 5Your corner of the shared space — what's it like?

    • Everything in its place
    • That's my system, don't touch it
    • The counter is my corner
    • My tools are always within reach
  6. 6Who's holding the shopping list?

    • Mine, sorted into categories
    • In my head, based on the recipe
    • A list? We'll figure it out in the shop
    • I just add the bits that ran out
  7. 7Sunday morning at home — what do you do?

    • It's the big clean-up day
    • I lay out a long breakfast
    • I knock out the small jobs that piled up
    • Nothing — that day is mine
  8. 8Your partner criticises something about the house. What's your first feeling?

    • Fair point, I'll fix it now
    • Again? Give me some space
    • I'll cook something good tonight, it'll pass
    • I ask exactly what's not working

🧹 The One Who Sets the System

With you around, the house always stays where it was; nobody wastes time hunting for things, because you built the system. Your shadow side: when the order breaks, so does your peace, and the person beside you can end up feeling like a guest in their own home.

🌀 The Mess-Maker

You leave the house looking lived in; for you a room should be comfortable rather than perfect, and that genuinely warms a home. Your shadow side: what you call "I'll tidy it later" is usually tidied by someone else, and they don't say so out loud every time.

🍳 The One Who Runs the Kitchen

You think the kitchen is the centre of the home, and you're right: feeding people is how you show love, and the house pulls itself together once the table is set. Your shadow side: when you try to solve everything with food, the conversation that needed having stays under the plate.

🔧 The Repairer

You spot the broken thing and get your hands on it; nothing hangs around the house for months labelled "we'll look at it later", which makes living easier. Your shadow side: wanting to handle everything alone sometimes means turning down help and never saying you're tired.

Which role is yours at home?

How are you with money?

How do you spend and save? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1Some unexpected money comes in. What do you do?

    • Straight into savings
    • I'd do something with it today — today exists
    • I work out exactly where it should go
    • I buy something for the people I love
  2. 2End of the month. What's in your account?

    • The same untouched amount as every month
    • Don't ask
    • I know it to the last penny
    • No idea, but nobody went without
  3. 3The restaurant bill arrives. What do you do?

    • I'll get it, let's not argue
    • We work out who had what
    • We split it, that's fair
    • Whoever grabs it first pays
  4. 4There's something expensive you love. What do you do?

    • I wait until it goes on sale
    • I buy it, life is short
    • I compare the price in three places
    • I'd buy my partner one first
  5. 5You're about to make a big purchase together. How do you decide?

    • I build a spreadsheet
    • We save up first, buy later
    • We split it into instalments and start today
    • I'll put in a bit more, it's fine
  6. 6How does talking about money feel to you?

    • Easy — numbers are clear
    • Necessary, but not enjoyable
    • Boring — I change the subject
    • Demeaning — like being asked to account for myself
  7. 7Who's in charge of the holiday budget?

    • Mine, with a daily limit and all
    • It was set aside months ago
    • Budget? We'll see when we get there
    • I'm paying anyway
  8. 8What is money most useful for?

    • Safety
    • Memories
    • Creating options
    • Sharing

🐷 The Saver

You never forget that tomorrow exists; when something goes wrong, the reason the household doesn't shake is probably you. Your shadow side: postponing every expense can mean never living today, and the person next to you keeps hearing "not now".

🎈 The Spender of Now

You turn money into life without delay; most of what you two will remember happened because you said "let's just do it". Your shadow side: leaving the bill for later makes later heavier, and that weight is usually carried by both of you.

📊 The Bookkeeper

You know where the money goes, and that knowledge actually calms you both; surprises don't catch you from behind. Your shadow side: measuring everything starts to feel like control, and the other person can end up explaining even a tiny purchase.

🎁 The Generous One

Your hand is open; giving is love for you, not arithmetic, and everyone around you knows it. Your shadow side: your own turn never comes, and the bill for what you said you'd handle quietly lands on you again.

How are you with money?

How do you plan the future?

How do you look five years ahead? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1Where do you see yourself in five years?

    • In my own place, in a familiar neighbourhood
    • In another city, maybe another country
    • Exactly where I want to be at work
    • No idea — I don't plan that far ahead
  2. 2An unexpected job offer comes in, in another city. What do you do?

    • I'd look into it right away — life is short
    • Is it worth breaking the life we've built?
    • I'd look at the pay and the title
    • Let's talk first, the decision comes later
  3. 3Do you have a one-year plan?

    • Yes — written down, with dates
    • Yes: keep this life steady
    • Yes, but it keeps changing
    • No — and I don't want one
  4. 4What would you do with your savings?

    • A deposit on a home
    • A long trip
    • Invest it and let it grow
    • Leave it — we'll see when we need it
  5. 5How does the word "settling down" feel to you?

    • Peace
    • Being boxed in
    • A stage — when its time comes
    • Nothing — it's just a word
  6. 6What would you want to do on your anniversary?

    • Run off somewhere we've never been
    • At home, just the two of us
    • Talk about the year gone and plan the next
    • Whatever we feel like that day
  7. 7What scares you most?

    • Living the same day over and over
    • Losing what I already have
    • Not getting anywhere
    • Committing to the wrong thing
  8. 8Who plans your shared future?

    • Me, and in detail
    • Both of us, slowly
    • Nobody — we go when a chance appears
    • We don't plan, we let it happen

🏡 The One Who Puts Down Roots

You think of the future as a place: familiar streets, the same table, a life already built. The person next to you feels safe with you. Your shadow side: meeting every change as a threat means the opportunity your partner brings you excitedly arrives to you as nothing but risk.

✈️ The One Looking for a Road

The future isn't a place for you, it's a direction: when a door opens, you look first. That's why no year of your life repeats. Your shadow side: each new possibility ages the last one, and the person beside you can start to feel that nothing will ever be permanent.

📈 The Goal-Setter

Your future has a calendar: where, when, by which step. That's why you two don't get stuck in one place. Your shadow side: tying everything to a target turns today into mere preparation for tomorrow, and your partner starts to feel they're watching your list rather than living a moment with you.

🍃 The Open-Ended One

You don't draw the future, you leave room for it, so the person beside you never has to fit inside a plan. Your shadow side: committing to nothing eventually reads to your partner as "this relationship has no direction either", and they end up carrying that uncertainty alone.

How do you plan the future?

Do crowds drain you?

Do crowds drain you or charge you up? · 8 questions · 1 players

  1. 1You walk into a crowded house. How do your first five minutes go?

    • I walk straight into the middle of the room
    • I find a familiar face and park myself next to them
    • I introduce my partner to people
    • I check where the exit is
  2. 2There's a total stranger at the table. What do you do?

    • I pull them in — I don't leave anyone out
    • I tell a story and the ice breaks
    • I'll talk if someone asks me something
    • I ask my partner "when are we heading off?"
  3. 3Mid-evening, where do you end up?

    • Wherever the laughter is coming from
    • In the kitchen, with two people
    • On my feet, drifting from group to group
    • Coat in hand, by the door
  4. 4Your partner is left alone in the room. What do you do?

    • I go over and introduce them to someone
    • I sit beside them and we're quiet together
    • I call them over to my table
    • I notice, but I don't step in
  5. 5Whose invitation gets a "yes"?

    • Any of them, if it's going to be a crowd
    • Small gatherings with people I know
    • Places where there'll be new people
    • The ones that'll end early
  6. 6You're back home. What's your first sentence?

    • "That was so much fun!"
    • "Ah, finally some quiet"
    • "You've got to meet that person"
    • "Good thing we left early"
  7. 7When does your social battery run out?

    • After two hours, like clockwork
    • When the voices start piling on each other
    • Once everyone has found their place
    • It doesn't — not until they turn the lights on
  8. 8Which of you says "let's go"?

    • Me — always me
    • Never me
    • I don't say it — I just look at them
    • Both of us — the goodbyes take an hour

🎤 The Life of the Room

The air changes when you walk into a room; nobody is bored around you, and the evening usually comes alive because of you. Your shadow side: while the attention is on you, you don't notice your partner going quiet, and when the night gets retold, you tell it and they just listen.

🛋️ The One Who Finds a Corner

It isn't that you dislike crowds; it's that you can't go deep in them, and you wouldn't trade one long conversation for ten hellos. Your shadow side: while your partner works to bring you into the room, every step you take back leaves them carrying both you and the evening.

🤝 The Connector

You see who isn't talking to whom and you close that gap; nobody is left outside in a room you're in. Your shadow side: while making sure everyone is comfortable, you never get to have your own evening, and you come home tired without knowing why.

🚪 The Early Leaver

You know your own limit: you get up before it sours, which is why your evenings don't end badly. Your shadow side: the clock runs for you while the night may just be starting for your partner, and when "let's go" always comes from you, they end up feeling like the one who cuts things short.

Do crowds drain you?

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Are the quizzes solo or for two?

Both. Some are about you alone; the couple quizzes are answered separately by both of you and the results are set side by side.

How long do they take?

Around eight questions each, two or three minutes. They are kept short on purpose so they do not feel like a survey.

Are the results scientific?

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