First Date questions

1What impresses you most on a first date?

• A sense of humour
• The way they look at you
• Confidence
• Good manners

2What do you notice first about someone?

• Their smile
• Their eyes
• Their tone of voice
• How they carry themselves

3How fast does your first impression form?

• Within seconds
• In a few minutes
• After an hour
• Not until the second meeting

4Is your first impression usually right?

• Almost always
• Most of the time
• Half and half
• I'm usually wrong

5What do you spot fastest in a person?

• Their energy
• Their clothes
• Their choice of words
• How they are with their phone

6What if you forget a new person's name?

• I just ask honestly
• I keep talking without using a name
• I ask someone else
• I find out later

7What do you watch for most on a first date?

• How they listen
• What they talk about
• How they treat the waiter
• How much they laugh

8What loses you in the first minute?

• Rudeness
• Non-stop talking
• Never looking up from the phone
• Turning up late

9How do you want to come across on a first date?

• Relaxed
• Sharp
• Funny
• Mysterious

10How long do you wait if they're late?

• Ten minutes
• Half an hour
• An hour
• I'll wait as long as they let me know

11Who starts the conversation on a first date?

• Me
• The other person
• We wait out the silence
• The venue takes care of it

12What do you do in a silence?

• I ask a question
• I crack a joke
• I enjoy the silence
• I check my phone

13What's your favourite first-date topic?

• Travel
• Childhood
• Work
• Films and music

14Which topic do you avoid?

• Politics
• Past relationships
• Money
• Family

15Which do you do more?

• I listen
• I talk
• I ask a question
• I crack a joke

16How much do you talk about yourself?

• Only if asked
• Plenty
• Just enough to intrigue
• Never

17They're telling a long story. What do you do?

• I listen with pleasure
• I jump in
• I stretch it out with questions
• I wait for them to wrap it up

18What's the best opening question?

• "How was your day?"
• "What do you do?"
• "Do you come here often?"
• "What did you watch last?"

19What if your joke falls flat?

• Another one right after
• I laugh it off
• I'd change the subject
• I try to explain it

20Voice or text?

• Text messages
• Voice notes
• A phone call
• Video call

21Where should a first date be?

• A café
• Walking
• Food
• An exhibition or an event

22Busy or quiet?

• Somewhere quiet
• Somewhere lively
• Doesn't matter
• Outdoors

23What time should the date be?

• Not till the afternoon
• Late afternoon
• The night before
• Morning coffee

24Who picks the place?

• I pick
• Let them pick
• We decide together
• We decide on the way

25Who pays the bill?

• We split it
• Whoever invited
• I want to
• We take turns

26How long should a first date last?

• An hour
• Two or three hours
• Let it run into the evening
• I let it flow

27What do you bring along?

• Nothing at all
• A small gift
• An umbrella or a backup plan
• Phone and charger

28What do you do if it starts raining?

• We head inside
• We keep walking
• I head home
• I like it even more

29Should a mutual friend come too?

• Absolutely not
• Good for the first time
• They can join later
• Doesn't matter

30What do you do before a date?

• I pick an outfit
• I think about what to say
• I don't prepare at all
• I talk it over with a friend

31Do you show your excitement?

• I never let it show
• A bit leaks out
• I say it outright
• My silence gives it away

32Do you give compliments?

• Plenty
• In moderation
• Only in my head
• By turning it into a joke

33What do you do when you get a compliment?

• I say thank you
• It embarrasses me
• I make a joke
• I return it

34Where's your phone during the date?

• In my bag
• Face down on the table
• In my hand
• On the table, on silent

35Do you take photos?

• No
• Of the place
• Of the two of us
• Just of the food

36Do you text a friend during the date?

• No
• One word
• I tell them everything
• I'll tell them later

37How do you show you're not interested?

• I don't show it
• I leave early
• I say it outright
• I give short answers

38How do you show you like them?

• With my eyes
• With my questions
• I say it straight out
• I try not to show it

39What do you do when you're nervous?

• I talk too much
• I keep quiet
• I crack a joke
• I drink water

40What do you wear on a first date?

• My most comfortable self
• My sharpest look
• Somewhere in between
• Something I just bought

1How do you wake up in the mornings?

• Without an alarm
• On the first alarm
• On the fifth alarm
• Someone wakes me

2What's the first thing you do when you wake?

• I check my phone
• I drink water
• I shower
• I stay in bed a while

3Do you eat breakfast?

• Always
• Just coffee
• I skip it
• It waits till noon

4How long till you're ready to talk in the morning?

• Right away
• Half an hour
• After coffee
• Not till the afternoon

5What time do you get up at the weekend?

• Same time every day
• An hour or two later
• Till noon
• I wake up but don't get up

6What do you listen to in the morning?

• Silence
• Something calm
• Something upbeat
• News or a podcast

7When do you pick your outfit?

• The night before
• In a minute in the morning
• Standing at the wardrobe forever
• Whatever I see first

8Do you exercise in the morning?

• Every day
• Sometimes
• Never
• Just a walk

9How many times do you snooze?

• Never
• Once
• Three or four times
• I've lost count

10What do you do on your morning commute?

• Music
• Podcasts
• Your phone
• I just stare out

11Who cooks dinner?

• Me
• Someone else at home
• It's ordered in
• It depends

12Do you like cooking?

• I love it
• It's OK
• Only when I have to
• Never

13How many days in a row can you eat the same meal?

• Two days
• Three days
• A week
• Even one day is too many

14Do you try new flavours?

• I always try
• Now and then
• If I read the description
• I stick to what I know

15How often do you eat out?

• Almost every day
• A few times a week
• A few times a month
• Very rarely

16How long do you take over a menu?

• At a glance
• A few minutes
• A long, long time
• I ask the waiter

17Do you share your plate?

• Gladly
• A bit
• Just a taste
• Never

18Do you snack at night?

• Every night
• Sometimes
• Never
• Only at weekends

19How do you do the food shop?

• With a list
• Off the top of my head
• On an empty stomach
• I never go, I order in

20How many cups of coffee a day?

• Never
• One
• Two or three
• I've lost count

21What's your home like?

• Spotless
• Lived-in
• Messy but I know where everything is
• It gets tidied when guests come

22When do you do the washing up?

• Right away
• In the evening
• Once they pile up
• The machine handles it

23Do you fold the laundry?

• Right away
• A day later
• It stays in the basket
• I take it off the drying rack

24Where in your home do you spend most time?

• The living room
• The bedroom
• The kitchen
• A balcony

25Home or out?

• Home
• Out
• Home on weekdays, out at weekends
• Doesn't matter

26Do you like having guests over?

• Very much
• If they let me know first
• A small number
• Not really

27What's your shoes-at-home rule?

• They come off at the door
• Slippers
• Socks
• Doesn't matter

28Do you keep plants?

• I've got loads
• One or two
• I always kill them
• None at all

29Music or silence at home?

• Music all the time
• Now and then
• Silence
• Leave the TV on

30Do you move the furniture around?

• Often
• Once a year
• Never
• Only when I move

31How many hours of screen time a day?

• Under two hours
• Three or four
• Five or six
• I'm scared to look

32How are your notifications set up?

• All on
• Only the important ones
• All switched off
• Do Not Disturb is always on

33How fast do you reply to messages?

• Instantly
• Within a few hours
• In the evening
• Sometimes I forget

34How's your phone battery usually?

• Always full
• Around half
• I live in the red
• I carry a power bank

35What do you do on social media?

• I just scroll
• I post
• I comment
• I never go on

36What do you do with your photos?

• I sort them into folders
• I back them up
• I never look
• I delete some now and then

37How do you feel about voice messages?

• I love it
• I send them but don't listen
• I only listen
• Never

38Are your read receipts on?

• On
• Off
• I've never thought about it
• It depends

39Where's your phone at night?

• Right by my pillow
• Across the room
• In another room
• I fall asleep holding it

40What do you do when an app notification pops up?

• I open it right away
• I look later
• I dismiss it
• I'd let it slide

1Who should make the first move?

• Whoever wants to
• Me
• The other person
• It should just happen

2When do you say you like someone?

• Right away
• After a few dates
• Once they say it
• I don't say it, it shows

3How long should dating last?

• A few weeks
• A few months
• It can take years
• There's no set length

4What's the most impressive move?

• Really listening
• Surprising them
• Remembering a small detail
• Speaking openly

5Meet online or in real life?

• In real life
• Through an app
• A mutual friend
• Doesn't matter

6How many dates before you decide?

• One
• Two or three
• Five or six
• It's not about a number

7Meeting through a mutual friend?

• The most reliable way
• Too risky
• Doesn't matter
• I don't like it at all

8What do you do if the interest isn't returned?

• I back off
• I try once more
• I just ask outright
• I shut it down right away

9What do you do if the other person moves too fast?

• I quite like it
• It makes me uneasy
• I slow things down
• It depends

10Summer fling or long haul?

• The long haul
• A summer fling
• Either works
• Neither

11How often do you text in a day?

• Constantly
• A few times
• Morning and evening
• Short and sweet

12What do you think when they don't reply?

• They must be busy
• Something's wrong
• They just didn't feel like it
• I don't wonder about it

13How should heart-to-hearts happen?

• Face to face
• On the phone
• Over text
• While walking

14How do you show love?

• By saying it
• By doing things
• By making time
• Through touch

15How do you deliver bad news?

• Straight out
• Softening it
• In writing
• By putting it off

16Stay silent or speak up?

• Talking
• Stay quiet and think first
• It depends
• Writing it and not sending

17Surprise or a heads-up?

• A surprise
• Knowing in advance
• Small ones as surprises
• I don't like it at all

18When do you share your opinion?

• Always
• Only if asked
• Only if it won't hurt
• Rarely

19A long text or a short call?

• A short call
• A long message
• Voice notes
• Face to face

20What do you need on a bad day?

• Just be there
• Leave me alone
• Getting me talking
• Making me laugh

21How does an argument end?

• By talking it out
• Over time
• With an apology
• Nobody remembers

22What do you do when you're angry?

• I keep quiet
• I talk
• I go for a walk
• I write

23Who apologises first?

• Me
• They do
• The one who's right
• Whoever caves first

24Would you leave an argument for the next day?

• Absolutely
• Never
• Sometimes
• Depends if I can sleep

25Do you raise your voice?

• Never
• Rarely
• Sometimes
• I lose it fast

26Does the same subject come back up?

• No, it's closed
• It comes back
• Sometimes
• I bring it up

27If you sulk, how long does it last?

• I don't do that
• Within a few hours
• For a day
• It lasts a long while

28How does making up happen?

• With a hug
• By talking it out
• With a joke
• With a gift

29Being right or making peace?

• Peace
• Being proved right
• Both
• It depends

30Do you consult a third person?

• Never
• My closest person
• My family
• Everyone

31What matters most in a relationship?

• Trust
• A sense of humour
• Freedom
• A shared life

32How much time together do you want?

• Every day
• A few times a week
• Weekends
• As much as we need

33Is a shared circle of friends a must?

• Essential
• That'd be nice
• Not necessary
• Better kept separate

34How do you feel about sharing passwords?

• Not necessary
• That's fine
• Essential
• We've never discussed it

35Are you open to surprises?

• I love it
• The small ones
• Never
• I want a heads-up

36How do you feel about a joint account?

• Keep them separate
• Make it joint
• A mix of both
• It depends

37When do you move in together?

• Early
• After a year
• Once married
• Never

38Should holidays be just the two of you or a crowd?

• Just the two of us
• With friends
• With the families
• Mix it up

39Should there be a pet?

• Yes, let's
• No thanks
• It depends
• I already have one

40Who does the planning?

• Me
• They do
• We take turns
• Nobody

1Where do you want to be in five years?

• In the same city
• In another city
• In another country
• No idea, I'll go with the flow

2Where is your dream home?

• In the city centre
• By the sea
• A mountain cabin
• A house with a garden

3How does your ideal day start?

• With silence
• With the sea
• With coffee
• With a crowd

4Do you live by a plan?

• A long-term plan
• A yearly plan
• Week by week
• No plans at all

5What will you do in retirement?

• Travel
• A garden
• A new job
• Nothing at all

6When do you make a big change?

• Right away
• When I'm ready
• When I have no choice
• Never

7How much would you risk for your dream?

• Everything
• Part of it
• Very little
• Never

8What do you do if your dream gets blocked?

• I find another way
• I wait
• I give up
• I push through

9What is success to you?

• Calm
• Money
• Being known
• Freedom

10How does getting older feel to you?

• Lovely
• Scary
• Doesn't matter
• I never think about it

11If you were gifted a ticket, where to?

• The Far East
• Europe
• The Americas
• Africa

12How do you feel about travelling alone?

• I love it
• Tried it, that's enough
• It scares me
• I've never thought about it

13A new country or a place you love?

• A new country
• A place I love
• Half and half
• Somewhere close by

14What's your priority when travelling?

• Food
• History
• Nature
• People

15When do you pack?

• Days ahead
• The day before
• The night before
• The morning of

16Planned or improvised?

• Planned hour by hour
• Just the outline
• Improvised
• Let the other person plan

17How's your budget when travelling?

• Tight
• Flexible
• I never think about it
• I set it aside in advance

18What do you do on a long flight?

• I sleep
• Films
• A book
• I stare out the window

19How long is the ideal holiday?

• Three days
• A week
• Two weeks
• A month

20How do you feel coming home?

• Relief
• Wistfulness
• Straight to the next plan
• Exhaustion

21What's your dream job like?

• Creative
• Calm
• High-paying
• With people

22What motivates you most at work?

• Recognition
• Money
• Learning
• Freedom

23Would you start your own business?

• I have or I will
• I'd consider it
• Too risky
• Never

24Work or life?

• Balance
• Work first
• Life first
• Depends on the period

25Would you work abroad?

• Right away
• For a few years
• I wouldn't consider it
• I'm already there

26Do you make friends with coworkers?

• It's real
• I keep my distance
• Keep it at work
• They're my closest friends

27Would you consider changing careers?

• I'm thinking about it
• I already did
• Never
• Maybe later on

28What do you do when you fail?

• I try again
• I analyse it
• I take a break
• I change direction

29Would you like to be famous?

• I'd love it
• No
• Just in my field
• I've never thought about it

30When do you want to retire?

• Early
• At the normal age
• Never
• I love working

31What would you do with unexpected money?

• I'd save it
• I'd go on holiday
• I'd pay off debt
• I'd buy gifts

32Money or time?

• Time together
• Money
• Both
• Depends on the period

33Do you keep a budget?

• Down to the last penny
• Roughly
• Never
• An app does it for me

34What do you spend the most on?

• Food
• Travel
• Home
• Tech

35Expensive but good quality?

• Quality every time
• Cheap and lots of it
• Somewhere in between
• I wait for a sale

36Would you borrow money?

• Never
• Only when I have to
• Openly
• Only from family

37Is saving easy for you?

• Very easy
• It's OK
• Hard
• Impossible

38Do you invest?

• I do it
• I'm learning
• I find it risky
• I take no interest

39How's your gift budget?

• High
• Average
• Low
• Handmade

40If you got rich, what first?

• I'd buy a home
• I'd travel the world
• I'd donate
• I wouldn't change

1Do you lie?

• White lies only
• If I have to
• Never
• I'm very good at it

2What did you last apologise for?

• For being late
• Something I said
• Something I forgot
• I never apologise

3Is there something you've told no one?

• Just one
• A few
• Plenty
• None

4When were you first jealous of someone?

• As a child
• In my teens
• Last year
• I don't remember

5What's your biggest fear?

• Being alone
• Failure
• Losing someone
• Change

6How are you with crying?

• It's a relief
• It embarrasses me
• I can't cry
• I cry often

7What can't you forgive yourself for?

• Something I said
• A decision
• A silence
• I've forgiven it all

8What do people get wrong about you?

• I'm not as strong as people think
• I'm not as quiet as people think
• I'm not as easy-going as people think
• I'm exactly what people think

9How do you react to praise?

• I don't believe it
• It makes me happy
• I brush it off
• I never hear it enough

10Are you your real self on social media?

• Completely
• Partly
• Never
• I don't use it anyway

11Are you good at setting boundaries?

• Very good at it
• I'm learning
• I struggle with it
• I have no idea how

12Is it hard to say no?

• Not at all
• Sometimes
• Very hard
• I always say yes

13What do you do if a close friend crosses the line?

• I say so right away
• I mention it later
• I let it go
• I pull away

14Who's allowed to look at your phone?

• Nobody
• My partner
• My closest friend
• Anyone can

15Who do you share your private life with?

• With no one
• With one person
• With my inner circle
• With everyone

16Can you keep a secret?

• To the grave
• Usually
• I struggle with it
• Never

17Do you tell people when you're angry with them?

• Right away
• Later
• Never
• I hint at it

18How does asking for help feel to you?

• Easy
• Hard
• Never
• Only from family

19What drains you most?

• Expectations
• A crowd
• Uncertainty
• Repetition

20How often do you make time for yourself?

• Every day
• Once a week
• Rarely
• Never

21Are you the jealous type?

• Never
• A bit
• Quite
• I don't show it

22How do you show jealousy?

• I go quiet
• I ask about it
• I turn it into a joke
• I don't show it

23How do you feel about staying friends with an ex?

• No problem at all
• It bothers me
• It depends
• I wouldn't accept it

24Do likes on social media make you jealous?

• I find it silly
• It gets to me a little
• It really gets to me
• I never look

25Is jealousy a sign of love?

• No
• A bit
• Yes
• Depends on the dose

26Do you talk when you're jealous?

• Right away
• Once I calm down
• Never
• I hint at it

27What do you do if your partner gets jealous?

• I quite like it
• It bothers me
• I meet it with understanding
• I draw a line

28Shared friend group or separate ones?

• Shared feels better
• Separate feels better
• A mix of both
• I've never thought about it

29How do you feel about talking about the past?

• Openly
• If I have to
• Never
• I'm curious about it

30How is trust built?

• Over time
• Through honest talk
• It's there from the start
• It's never fully built

31Make the first move or wait for it?

• I make the move
• I wait
• It depends
• I hint at it

32What does romance mean to you?

• Small details
• Grand gestures
• Words
• Quiet presence

33How about a surprise getaway?

• I'm in right away
• Tell me in advance
• Not without preparing
• No

34When should the first kiss happen?

• On the first date
• After a few dates
• When the moment is right
• I'm in no rush

35What do you find most attractive?

• Intelligence
• A sense of humour
• Confidence
• Kindness

36Is love at first sight real?

• It's real
• It isn't
• It's curiosity, not love
• It happened to me

37Do you prefer a letter or a message?

• A handwritten letter
• A long message
• Voice notes
• Face to face

38Do you dance?

• Anywhere
• Not in a crowd
• Only when it's just us
• Never

39What do you give someone you love?

• Something meaningful
• Something expensive
• Something you made
• An experience

40Can a long-distance relationship work?

• It can work
• It doesn't work
• If there's an end date
• I've tried it