First Date questions

1What impresses you most on a first date?

• A sense of humour
• The way they look at you
• Confidence
• Good manners

2What do you notice first about someone?

• Their smile
• Their eyes
• Their tone of voice
• How they carry themselves

3How fast does your first impression form?

• Within seconds
• In a few minutes
• After an hour
• Not until the second meeting

4Is your first impression usually right?

• Almost always
• Most of the time
• Half and half
• I'm usually wrong

5What do you spot fastest in a person?

• Their energy
• Their clothes
• Their choice of words
• How they are with their phone

6What if you forget a new person's name?

• I just ask honestly
• I keep talking without using a name
• I ask someone else
• I find out later

7What do you watch for most on a first date?

• How they listen
• What they talk about
• How they treat the waiter
• How much they laugh

8What loses you in the first minute?

• Rudeness
• Non-stop talking
• Never looking up from the phone
• Turning up late

9How do you want to come across on a first date?

• Relaxed
• Sharp
• Funny
• Mysterious

10How long do you wait if they're late?

• Ten minutes
• Half an hour
• An hour
• I'll wait as long as they let me know

1How do you wake up in the mornings?

• Without an alarm
• On the first alarm
• On the fifth alarm
• Someone wakes me

2What's the first thing you do when you wake?

• I check my phone
• I drink water
• I shower
• I stay in bed a while

3Do you eat breakfast?

• Always
• Just coffee
• I skip it
• It waits till noon

4How long till you're ready to talk in the morning?

• Right away
• Half an hour
• After coffee
• Not till the afternoon

5What time do you get up at the weekend?

• Same time every day
• An hour or two later
• Till noon
• I wake up but don't get up

6What do you listen to in the morning?

• Silence
• Something calm
• Something upbeat
• News or a podcast

7When do you pick your outfit?

• The night before
• In a minute in the morning
• Standing at the wardrobe forever
• Whatever I see first

8Do you exercise in the morning?

• Every day
• Sometimes
• Never
• Just a walk

9How many times do you snooze?

• Never
• Once
• Three or four times
• I've lost count

10What do you do on your morning commute?

• Music
• Podcasts
• Your phone
• I just stare out

1Who should make the first move?

• Whoever wants to
• Me
• The other person
• It should just happen

2When do you say you like someone?

• Right away
• After a few dates
• Once they say it
• I don't say it, it shows

3How long should dating last?

• A few weeks
• A few months
• It can take years
• There's no set length

4What's the most impressive move?

• Really listening
• Surprising them
• Remembering a small detail
• Speaking openly

5How do you prefer to meet someone new?

• In real life
• Through an app
• A mutual friend
• Doesn't matter

6How many dates before you decide?

• One
• Two or three
• Five or six
• It's not about a number

7Meeting through a mutual friend?

• The most reliable way
• Too risky
• Doesn't matter
• I don't like it at all

8What do you do if the interest isn't returned?

• I back off
• I try once more
• I just ask outright
• I shut it down right away

9What do you do if the other person moves too fast?

• I quite like it
• It makes me uneasy
• I slow things down
• It depends

10Summer fling or long haul?

• The long haul
• A summer fling
• Either works
• Neither

1Where do you want to be in five years?

• In the same city
• In another city
• In another country
• No idea, I'll go with the flow

2Where is your dream home?

• In the city centre
• By the sea
• A mountain cabin
• A house with a garden

3How does your ideal day start?

• With silence
• With the sea
• With coffee
• With a crowd

4Do you live by a plan?

• A long-term plan
• A yearly plan
• Week by week
• No plans at all

5What will you do in retirement?

• Travel
• A garden
• A new job
• Nothing at all

6When do you make a big change?

• Right away
• When I'm ready
• When I have no choice
• Never

7How much would you risk for your dream?

• Everything
• Part of it
• Very little
• Never

8What do you do if your dream gets blocked?

• I find another way
• I wait
• I give up
• I push through

9What is success to you?

• Calm
• Money
• Being known
• Freedom

10How does getting older feel to you?

• Lovely
• Scary
• Doesn't matter
• I never think about it

1When did you last see your family?

• This week
• Sometime this month
• It's been months
• We live together

2How do you keep in touch with your family?

• By video call
• By phone call
• By texting
• By dropping in unannounced

3How much do you think you take after your family?

• A great deal
• In some ways
• Not at all
• I'm the opposite

4How does your family act on first meeting your partner?

• They take them in at once
• They ask endless questions
• They keep their distance
• They comment afterwards

5What if your family said something negative about your relationship?

• I'd take it seriously
• I'd go my own way
• I'd argue
• I'd pretend not to hear

6Who takes the first step after a rift with your family?

• I do
• They do
• Nobody does
• It passes with time

7Are there subjects you never raise with your family?

• We avoid most subjects
• One sensitive one
• We talk about everything
• There are fewer over time

8How do you feel about living with your family?

• I could do it for years
• For a short spell
• Near them but separate
• Never

9How do big family gatherings feel to you?

• I can't wait for them
• Fun but tiring
• Like a duty
• I skip them if I can

10When do you tell your family about a decision?

• Before I make it
• After I've made it
• Only the big ones
• I never tell them

1Would you leave your phone unlocked on the table?

• I'd leave it easily
• I'd turn the screen off
• I'd take it with me
• It depends who's there

2Do you share your location with your partner?

• Let it stay on always
• Only when I'm travelling
• I tell them if they ask
• I never share it

3How do you feel when your partner asks where you are?

• I count it as caring
• I find it natural
• I feel smothered
• I wonder why they're asking

4How do you say you want to be alone?

• I say it plainly
• I find an excuse
• I slip away quietly
• I make it clear without saying it

5What do you expect when you close your door?

• That nobody disturbs me
• That they knock
• That they come in and sit with me
• I don't close my door

6Living together what stays entirely yours?

• My work corner
• My wardrobe
• My mornings
• Let it all be shared

7What do you say to someone who uses your things without asking?

• I don't mind at all
• Just ask me first
• I say some things are off limits
• I tell them it bothers me

8What if someone saw your open laptop?

• I wouldn't care
• I'd close it at once
• I'd feel uneasy
• It's locked anyway

9What if your partner opened a parcel addressed to you?

• I wouldn't mind
• I'd want them to wait
• Let's open it together
• It would annoy me

10How does your phone unlock?

• With my fingerprint
• With my face
• With a passcode
• It isn't locked

1Which kind of music is closest to you?

• Pop
• Rock
• Electronic
• Classical

2What catches you in a song?

• The lyrics
• The melody
• The rhythm
• The tone of the voice

3Is music on through your day?

• Almost always
• Only on the way somewhere
• At certain hours
• I rarely put it on

4How do you find new songs?

• From ready made playlists
• From a friend's recommendation
• By hearing one somewhere
• I listen to the same ones

5How long does it take you to like a song?

• In the first seconds
• After a few listens
• It grows on me
• It never grows on me

6Does the language of the lyrics matter?

• It should be one I understand
• The language doesn't matter
• Better in another language
• I'd rather have no lyrics

7Do you make playlists?

• One for every mood
• One long list
• I put on ready made ones
• I never make them

8Are your headphones always with you?

• Always on me
• They live in my bag
• Only when travelling
• I don't use headphones

9Do you listen to the radio?

• It's always on in the car
• Now and then
• I prefer my own list
• Never

10What do you do when music you dislike is playing?

• I turn it off
• I try to get used to it
• I respect the room
• I move somewhere else

1Do you lie?

• White lies only
• If I have to
• Never
• I'm very good at it

2What did you last apologise for?

• For being late
• Something I said
• Something I forgot
• I never apologise

3Is there something you've told no one?

• Just one
• A few
• Plenty
• None

4When were you first jealous of someone?

• As a child
• In my teens
• Last year
• I don't remember

5What's your biggest fear?

• Being alone
• Failure
• Losing someone
• Change

6How are you with crying?

• It's a relief
• It embarrasses me
• I can't cry
• I cry often

7What can't you forgive yourself for?

• Something I said
• A decision
• A silence
• I've forgiven it all

8What do people get wrong about you?

• I'm not as strong as people think
• I'm not as quiet as people think
• I'm not as easy-going as people think
• I'm exactly what people think

9How do you react to praise?

• I don't believe it
• It makes me happy
• I brush it off
• I never hear it enough

10Are you your real self on social media?

• Completely
• Partly
• Never
• I don't use it anyway