Love — First Date questions

1Who should make the first move?

• Whoever wants to
• Me
• The other person
• It should just happen

2When do you say you like someone?

• Right away
• After a few dates
• Once they say it
• I don't say it, it shows

3How long should dating last?

• A few weeks
• A few months
• It can take years
• There's no set length

4What's the most impressive move?

• Really listening
• Surprising them
• Remembering a small detail
• Speaking openly

5Meet online or in real life?

• In real life
• Through an app
• A mutual friend
• Doesn't matter

6How many dates before you decide?

• One
• Two or three
• Five or six
• It's not about a number

7Meeting through a mutual friend?

• The most reliable way
• Too risky
• Doesn't matter
• I don't like it at all

8What do you do if the interest isn't returned?

• I back off
• I try once more
• I just ask outright
• I shut it down right away

9What do you do if the other person moves too fast?

• I quite like it
• It makes me uneasy
• I slow things down
• It depends

10Summer fling or long haul?

• The long haul
• A summer fling
• Either works
• Neither

11How often do you text in a day?

• Constantly
• A few times
• Morning and evening
• Short and sweet

12What do you think when they don't reply?

• They must be busy
• Something's wrong
• They just didn't feel like it
• I don't wonder about it

13How should heart-to-hearts happen?

• Face to face
• On the phone
• Over text
• While walking

14How do you show love?

• By saying it
• By doing things
• By making time
• Through touch

15How do you deliver bad news?

• Straight out
• Softening it
• In writing
• By putting it off

16Stay silent or speak up?

• Talking
• Stay quiet and think first
• It depends
• Writing it and not sending

17Surprise or a heads-up?

• A surprise
• Knowing in advance
• Small ones as surprises
• I don't like it at all

18When do you share your opinion?

• Always
• Only if asked
• Only if it won't hurt
• Rarely

19A long text or a short call?

• A short call
• A long message
• Voice notes
• Face to face

20What do you need on a bad day?

• Just be there
• Leave me alone
• Getting me talking
• Making me laugh

21How does an argument end?

• By talking it out
• Over time
• With an apology
• Nobody remembers

22What do you do when you're angry?

• I keep quiet
• I talk
• I go for a walk
• I write

23Who apologises first?

• Me
• They do
• The one who's right
• Whoever caves first

24Would you leave an argument for the next day?

• Absolutely
• Never
• Sometimes
• Depends if I can sleep

25Do you raise your voice?

• Never
• Rarely
• Sometimes
• I lose it fast

26Does the same subject come back up?

• No, it's closed
• It comes back
• Sometimes
• I bring it up

27If you sulk, how long does it last?

• I don't do that
• Within a few hours
• For a day
• It lasts a long while

28How does making up happen?

• With a hug
• By talking it out
• With a joke
• With a gift

29Being right or making peace?

• Peace
• Being proved right
• Both
• It depends

30Do you consult a third person?

• Never
• My closest person
• My family
• Everyone

31What matters most in a relationship?

• Trust
• A sense of humour
• Freedom
• A shared life

32How much time together do you want?

• Every day
• A few times a week
• Weekends
• As much as we need

33Is a shared circle of friends a must?

• Essential
• That'd be nice
• Not necessary
• Better kept separate

34How do you feel about sharing passwords?

• Not necessary
• That's fine
• Essential
• We've never discussed it

35Are you open to surprises?

• I love it
• The small ones
• Never
• I want a heads-up

36How do you feel about a joint account?

• Keep them separate
• Make it joint
• A mix of both
• It depends

37When do you move in together?

• Early
• After a year
• Once married
• Never

38Should holidays be just the two of you or a crowd?

• Just the two of us
• With friends
• With the families
• Mix it up

39Should there be a pet?

• Yes, let's
• No thanks
• It depends
• I already have one

40Who does the planning?

• Me
• They do
• We take turns
• Nobody

41Do you talk about your exes?

• Openly
• Only if asked
• Very little
• Never

42Can you stay friends with an ex?

• You can
• You can't
• It depends
• From a distance

43Are you curious about their past?

• Very much
• A bit
• Never
• I listen if they tell me

44Do you follow your ex on social media?

• I don't follow
• I follow them
• I check now and then
• I block them

45Do you remember your first love?

• Every detail
• It's hazy
• Never
• I won't talk about it

46Do you repeat the same mistake?

• Never
• Sometimes
• Often
• Without realising it

47What did the past teach you?

• Patience
• Speaking openly
• Setting boundaries
• Not expecting

48Do you keep old messages?

• All of them
• Some of them
• I delete them
• I never look

49Forgive or forget?

• Forgiving
• Forgetting
• Both
• Neither

50Can you go back to an ex?

• Never
• That's fine
• Once
• It depends