Bold — First Date questions

1Do you lie?

• White lies only
• If I have to
• Never
• I'm very good at it

2What did you last apologise for?

• For being late
• Something I said
• Something I forgot
• I never apologise

3Is there something you've told no one?

• Just one
• A few
• Plenty
• None

4When were you first jealous of someone?

• As a child
• In my teens
• Last year
• I don't remember

5What's your biggest fear?

• Being alone
• Failure
• Losing someone
• Change

6How are you with crying?

• It's a relief
• It embarrasses me
• I can't cry
• I cry often

7What can't you forgive yourself for?

• Something I said
• A decision
• A silence
• I've forgiven it all

8What do people get wrong about you?

• I'm not as strong as people think
• I'm not as quiet as people think
• I'm not as easy-going as people think
• I'm exactly what people think

9How do you react to praise?

• I don't believe it
• It makes me happy
• I brush it off
• I never hear it enough

10Are you your real self on social media?

• Completely
• Partly
• Never
• I don't use it anyway

11Are you good at setting boundaries?

• Very good at it
• I'm learning
• I struggle with it
• I have no idea how

12Is it hard to say no?

• Not at all
• Sometimes
• Very hard
• I always say yes

13What do you do if a close friend crosses the line?

• I say so right away
• I mention it later
• I let it go
• I pull away

14Who's allowed to look at your phone?

• Nobody
• My partner
• My closest friend
• Anyone can

15Who do you share your private life with?

• With no one
• With one person
• With my inner circle
• With everyone

16Can you keep a secret?

• To the grave
• Usually
• I struggle with it
• Never

17Do you tell people when you're angry with them?

• Right away
• Later
• Never
• I hint at it

18How does asking for help feel to you?

• Easy
• Hard
• Never
• Only from family

19What drains you most?

• Expectations
• A crowd
• Uncertainty
• Repetition

20How often do you make time for yourself?

• Every day
• Once a week
• Rarely
• Never

21Are you the jealous type?

• Never
• A bit
• Quite
• I don't show it

22How do you show jealousy?

• I go quiet
• I ask about it
• I turn it into a joke
• I don't show it

23How do you feel about staying friends with an ex?

• No problem at all
• It bothers me
• It depends
• I wouldn't accept it

24Do the likes your partner gives others make you jealous?

• I find it silly
• It gets to me a little
• It really gets to me
• I never look

25Is jealousy a sign of love?

• No
• A bit
• Yes
• Depends on the dose

26Do you talk when you're jealous?

• Right away
• Once I calm down
• Never
• I hint at it

27What do you do if your partner gets jealous?

• I quite like it
• It bothers me
• I meet it with understanding
• I draw a line

28Shared friend group or separate ones?

• Shared feels better
• Separate feels better
• A mix of both
• I've never thought about it

29How do you feel about talking about the past?

• Openly
• If I have to
• Never
• I'm curious about it

30How is trust built?

• Over time
• Through honest talk
• It's there from the start
• It's never fully built

31Make the first move or wait for it?

• I make the move
• I wait
• It depends
• I hint at it

32What does romance mean to you?

• Small details
• Grand gestures
• Words
• Quiet presence

33How about a surprise getaway?

• I'm in right away
• Tell me in advance
• Not without preparing
• No

34When should the first kiss happen?

• On the first date
• After a few dates
• When the moment is right
• I'm in no rush

35What do you find most attractive?

• Intelligence
• A sense of humour
• Confidence
• Kindness

36Is love at first sight real?

• It's real
• It isn't
• It's curiosity, not love
• It happened to me

37Do you prefer a letter or a message?

• A handwritten letter
• A long message
• Voice notes
• Face to face

38Do you dance?

• Anywhere
• Not in a crowd
• Only when it's just us
• Never

39What do you give someone you love?

• Something meaningful
• Something expensive
• Something you made
• An experience

40Can a long-distance relationship work?

• It can work
• It doesn't work
• If there's an end date
• I've tried it

41If you had to share a secret in front of the group, which one would you pick?

• The smallest one
• A middling one
• The biggest one
• I'd change the subject

42Would you hand your phone to someone for an hour?

• It's real
• Only someone close to me
• Never
• I'd clean it up first

43What kind of moment embarrasses you most?

• Something I said
• A time I fell over
• A text to the wrong person
• Freezing on stage

44How is it for you to tell someone "I miss you"?

• Easy
• Hard
• Never
• I hint at it

45What's the worst thing that could happen on a first date?

• Running out of things to say
• Arguing over the bill
• Bumping into an ex
• Your phone dying

46Which is harder: being rejected or rejecting?

• Rejecting someone
• Being rejected
• Both
• Neither

47Would you tell a hard truth or stay quiet?

• I speak up
• I keep quiet
• It depends
• Only if asked

48What do you do if you hear people talking about you?

• I'd confront it
• I'd pretend not to hear
• It would upset me
• I'm curious about it

49What do you do when you realise someone lied to you?

• I'd ask straight away
• I wait
• I'd quietly pull away
• I'd let it slide

50What are you most curious about in this game?

• How well they know me
• How well I know them
• Who's lying to you
• The final score

51What do you really want to do but haven't?

• Send a message
• Buy something
• Say something
• There's nothing I haven't done

52What do you do when you want something badly?

• I go after it openly
• I wait without showing it
• I act like I don't want it
• I give up quickly

53Does forbidden make something more tempting?

• Definitely
• A little
• On the contrary I cool off
• Bans don't stop me

54What happens when you can't get what you want?

• It never leaves my mind
• I forget it quickly
• I want it even more
• I turn to something else

55How long can you wait for something you want?

• I can't wait at all
• A few days
• For months
• For years

56How long does an enthusiasm last with you?

• A day
• A week
• Months
• It never passes

57Which longing is strongest in you right now?

• To be seen
• To be loved
• To be free
• To win

58What do you feel is missing most in your life?

• Excitement
• Time
• Peace
• Nothing

59How hard do you try to impress someone?

• I don't try at all
• I show off a little
• I do my best
• I put on a show

60What happens when you fixate on something?

• I lose sleep
• I tell everyone
• I keep it inside
• I deal with it right away

61Which habit of yours do you hide most?

• My messiness
• My stubbornness
• My forgetfulness
• I hide none of them

62How long before a lie of yours comes out?

• It shows instantly
• After a few days
• It never comes out
• I tell on myself

63Which lie comes easiest to you?

• Saying I'm fine
• Saying I'm on my way
• Saying I liked it
• None of them come easy

64When does regret usually reach you?

• The same night
• The next morning
• Years later
• I never regret anything

65What do you do first when you make a mistake?

• I own up right away
• I fix it quietly
• I cover it up
• I turn it into a joke

66What happens after you say something hurtful?

• I apologize right away
• It gnaws at me for days
• If I was right I stand by it
• I forget it quickly

67What do you do when an embarrassing memory hits?

• My face goes red
• I laugh it off
• I think about something else
• It never comes back to me

68What do you say about a gift you don't like?

• I say I loved it
• It shows on my face
• I say it honestly
• I pass it on to someone

69What do you fool yourself about most?

• I say I have time
• I say I'll do it tomorrow
• I say this time is different
• I don't fool myself

70Do you embellish the stories you tell?

• I tell it as it was
• I add a little colour
• I blow it right up
• It changes every time I tell it

71How closely do you follow rules?

• To the letter
• I follow them if they make sense
• I bend them if nobody's looking
• Rules don't bind me

72Have you ever wanted to drop everything and disappear for days?

• I want to right now
• Now and then
• I ran off once
• Never wanted to

73How do your sudden decisions usually end?

• Usually very well
• Usually in regret
• Fifty fifty
• I don't make sudden decisions

74When things get chaotic what do you become?

• The one who calms it
• The one who stirs it more
• The one who steps aside
• The one who seizes the chance

75Is your life ruled by order or chaos?

• Complete order
• Tidy from the outside
• Controlled chaos
• Complete chaos

76Do you leave things you started unfinished?

• I finish it no matter what
• I drop it when I get bored
• I have plenty left half done
• I don't even start

77What do you do when you get bored?

• I break the plan
• I buy something
• I change how I look
• I sit and wait it out

78What are you like in a long queue?

• I wait calmly
• I boil inside
• I grumble out loud
• I walk out

79How do you feel when you break a small rule?

• Guilt
• A thrill
• Nothing
• Justified

80What do you do if an idea hits you at midnight?

• I get up and do it
• I note it down and sleep
• I forget it by morning
• I call someone

81What do you do if your partner praises someone else?

• I don't care at all
• It turns my stomach
• I turn it into a joke
• I praise them too

82When does jealousy wake up in you?

• Where I know nobody
• When they pick up their phone
• When they tell me late
• It never wakes in me

83How do you feel when a close friend wins big?

• I'm happy for them
• It motivates me
• It stings quietly
• I'm happy and stung at once

84Do you ever want to look at your partner's phone?

• Never
• It crosses my mind
• I look
• I already know the passcode

85Are you closer to holding on or letting free?

• I hold on
• I let them be free
• I hold on without showing it
• It depends on the person

86How do you feel if your partner sees friends more than you?

• I take it as normal
• I feel a little left out
• I say it openly
• I keep it inside

87What happens when you suppress your jealousy?

• It passes
• It erupts over something else
• It lasts for days
• I don't suppress it I say it

88What if one of your partner's close friends bothers you?

• I say it openly
• I keep it inside
• I ask to meet them
• Nobody bothers me

89How do you treat someone you're jealous of?

• I get even nicer
• I stay cold
• I turn it into a race
• I keep my distance

90What if you saw someone else take your place in someone's life?

• I fight for it
• I withdraw quietly
• I ask why
• I shut it down at once

91How far do you go in a fight?

• I stay calm
• I say my piece
• I lose the thread completely
• I get up and leave

92Does your forgiveness have a limit?

• I forgive everything
• I forgive once
• I have a limit but it bends
• I forgive nothing

93What can't you tolerate in a person?

• Lying
• Disrespect
• Indifference
• I can bear all of it

94How many chances do you give someone?

• One
• Two or three
• I don't count
• I give no chances

95Do you take back what you said in a fight?

• I take it back at once
• I can't take it back
• I must have told the truth
• I apologize the next day

96What do you do if someone pushes you into something?

• I resist
• I back down
• I close the subject
• I leave the room

97At what point is an argument over for you?

• When voices rise
• When it turns personal
• When I'm proved right
• It runs to the very end

98Is it hard for you to cut someone out of your life?

• Not hard at all
• Very hard
• It takes long but I do it
• I've never done it

99What do you do when you're treated unfairly?

• I say it to their face
• I keep it inside
• I do the same back
• I forget it and move on

100What can't you take a joke about?

• My family
• My looks
• My work
• I laugh at all of it

101Do you say plainly what you want from someone?

• I say it directly
• I hint at it
• I wait for them to get it
• I handle it myself

102Are you the first to say you like someone?

• I always say it first
• Let the other start
• I hint at it
• I never say it

103What keeps you alive in a relationship?

• Passion
• Peace
• Curiosity
• Habit

104What ties you to a person most?

• That they want me
• That they understand me
• That they surprise me
• That they're like me

105Which side of someone you like moves you most?

• Their confident side
• Their fragile side
• Their cheerful side
• Their calm side

106What's your first answer if someone says they like you?

• I say I do too
• I say thank you
• I say I'm surprised
• I ask for time to think

107What happens to your interest when you can't see them?

• It grows
• It fades
• It stays the same
• That's when it really shows

108How does a grand romantic gesture land with you?

• It moves me deeply
• I find it over the top
• It embarrasses me
• I wonder what it's for

109How do you feel about holding hands in a crowd?

• I love it
• It's a bit much
• I don't like it at all
• It depends who's watching

110Which compliment actually works on you?

• About my looks
• About my mind
• About my effort
• One that shows they get me

111What don't you tell your friends about your relationship?

• Our arguments
• The times I got hurt
• Money matters
• I tell them nothing

112When do you speak up about something you dislike?

• The moment I notice it
• When it happens again
• When I can't stand it
• On the way out

113What did you hide most in a relationship?

• Who I was texting
• How much I spent
• Where I went
• What I felt

114What do people find hardest to bear in you?

• My silence
• My insistence
• My need for order
• My indecision

115Have you invented an excuse to leave a date early?

• I have
• I thought about it but didn't
• It was never needed
• I get a friend to set it up

116What did you do when you ended a relationship?

• I said it plainly
• I softened it
• I drifted away quietly
• I wasn't the one who ended it

117What did you wonder but never ask in a relationship?

• Where they were
• Who they were talking to
• Why they loved me
• How seriously they took us

118What's hardest to tell the person you love?

• How attached I am
• What hurt me
• What I expect
• What I gave up

119What have you said too late most often?

• That I liked them
• That I was hurt
• That I'd given up
• That I was wrong

120What's the biggest thing you gave up in a relationship?

• I moved city
• I drifted from my friends
• I put my plans on hold
• I held myself back

121Can broken trust be rebuilt?

• It can
• Never again
• Half of it stays broken
• Depends how many times it broke

122What throws a relationship into turmoil?

• Jealousy
• A long silence
• A third person
• Distance coming between

123What if your partner told their family everything?

• I'd find it normal
• I'd set a boundary
• I'd tell mine too
• I'd be embarrassed

124Can you like two people at once?

• It's possible
• It isn't
• Only briefly
• It happened to me

125What if you heard from someone else what your partner hid?

• I'd ask them
• I wouldn't trust the source
• I'd stay quiet a while
• I'd close the book

126How does an argument that ends in a breakup start?

• With one small remark
• With built up silence
• With a lie
• Out of nowhere

127What if your partner wanted to give up something big for you?

• I'd tell them not to
• I'd feel proud
• I'd feel uneasy
• I'd give something up too

128How does a stormy relationship feel to you?

• It makes me feel alive
• It wears me out
• It feels ordinary
• It pushes me away

129How do you feel when everything goes too well?

• I'm surprised
• I get suspicious
• I get bored
• I enjoy it

130What if your friends don't like your partner?

• Their view matters to me
• I do what I think is right
• I try to bring them together
• I keep the two apart

131Would you want your partner to delete photos with their exes?

• Yes I would
• I wouldn't say it but I'd want it
• I wouldn't care
• I'd delete mine first

132Which habit of your partner bothers you most?

• Hiding a name
• Turning the phone face down
• Replying late
• Explaining too much

133If you tried to make someone jealous what would you do?

• I'd post a photo
• I'd reply late
• I'd mention someone else
• I'd disappear

134Does your partner's closest friend feel like a rival?

• Never
• Now and then
• Often
• Depends on the friend

135What in your partner's past troubles you most?

• A very long relationship
• Someone they still see
• What they haven't told me
• A long list of relationships

136Do you check who your partner follows?

• Never
• When I get curious
• Regularly
• I look but don't admit it

137How do you feel about your partner's dinner with coworkers?

• Perfectly normal
• I ask who's going
• I'd want to come too
• I don't like it

138What if your partner met one of your friends alone?

• I'd find it natural
• They should tell me too
• It would bother me
• Depends which friend

139How would you feel if your partner got more attention?

• I'd feel proud
• It would bother me
• I wouldn't care
• I'd try to be seen too

140What if there's a stranger in your partner's photo?

• I'd ask who it is
• I'd never ask
• I'd study the photo
• I'd bring it up later

141How many evenings a week do you keep for yourself?

• None
• One evening
• A few evenings
• Half of them should be mine

142Do you warn people before you go off the radar?

• Every time
• If it'll be long
• Only if we have plans
• I don't see the need

143Would you want your own room in a shared home?

• It's a must
• It would be nice
• Not necessary
• Separate homes are better

144When do you announce a relationship online?

• Straight away
• After a few months
• I never announce it
• If they want to

145When should your partner meet your family?

• In the first months
• After a year
• When it gets serious
• There's no need

146How much should your family weigh in on your relationship?

• They can share their view
• Only if I ask
• Not at all
• Their blessing matters to me

147What if your partner wants to join your night with friends?

• I'd be glad
• To some of them yes
• I'd keep that plan mine
• Let them decide

148What if someone decided for you without asking?

• I'd get angry
• Depends what it's about
• I'd like it
• I'd say nothing

149What if your partner asked you to change a habit?

• I'd try
• I'd argue
• I'd refuse
• I'd ask which habit

150Which is easier to live with in a relationship?

• Constant calls
• Days of silence
• Constant questioning
• Never being asked