Bold — First Date questions

1Do you lie?

• White lies only
• If I have to
• Never
• I'm very good at it

2What did you last apologise for?

• For being late
• Something I said
• Something I forgot
• I never apologise

3Is there something you've told no one?

• Just one
• A few
• Plenty
• None

4When were you first jealous of someone?

• As a child
• In my teens
• Last year
• I don't remember

5What's your biggest fear?

• Being alone
• Failure
• Losing someone
• Change

6How are you with crying?

• It's a relief
• It embarrasses me
• I can't cry
• I cry often

7What can't you forgive yourself for?

• Something I said
• A decision
• A silence
• I've forgiven it all

8What do people get wrong about you?

• I'm not as strong as people think
• I'm not as quiet as people think
• I'm not as easy-going as people think
• I'm exactly what people think

9How do you react to praise?

• I don't believe it
• It makes me happy
• I brush it off
• I never hear it enough

10Are you your real self on social media?

• Completely
• Partly
• Never
• I don't use it anyway

11Are you good at setting boundaries?

• Very good at it
• I'm learning
• I struggle with it
• I have no idea how

12Is it hard to say no?

• Not at all
• Sometimes
• Very hard
• I always say yes

13What do you do if a close friend crosses the line?

• I say so right away
• I mention it later
• I let it go
• I pull away

14Who's allowed to look at your phone?

• Nobody
• My partner
• My closest friend
• Anyone can

15Who do you share your private life with?

• With no one
• With one person
• With my inner circle
• With everyone

16Can you keep a secret?

• To the grave
• Usually
• I struggle with it
• Never

17Do you tell people when you're angry with them?

• Right away
• Later
• Never
• I hint at it

18How does asking for help feel to you?

• Easy
• Hard
• Never
• Only from family

19What drains you most?

• Expectations
• A crowd
• Uncertainty
• Repetition

20How often do you make time for yourself?

• Every day
• Once a week
• Rarely
• Never

21Are you the jealous type?

• Never
• A bit
• Quite
• I don't show it

22How do you show jealousy?

• I go quiet
• I ask about it
• I turn it into a joke
• I don't show it

23How do you feel about staying friends with an ex?

• No problem at all
• It bothers me
• It depends
• I wouldn't accept it

24Do likes on social media make you jealous?

• I find it silly
• It gets to me a little
• It really gets to me
• I never look

25Is jealousy a sign of love?

• No
• A bit
• Yes
• Depends on the dose

26Do you talk when you're jealous?

• Right away
• Once I calm down
• Never
• I hint at it

27What do you do if your partner gets jealous?

• I quite like it
• It bothers me
• I meet it with understanding
• I draw a line

28Shared friend group or separate ones?

• Shared feels better
• Separate feels better
• A mix of both
• I've never thought about it

29How do you feel about talking about the past?

• Openly
• If I have to
• Never
• I'm curious about it

30How is trust built?

• Over time
• Through honest talk
• It's there from the start
• It's never fully built

31Make the first move or wait for it?

• I make the move
• I wait
• It depends
• I hint at it

32What does romance mean to you?

• Small details
• Grand gestures
• Words
• Quiet presence

33How about a surprise getaway?

• I'm in right away
• Tell me in advance
• Not without preparing
• No

34When should the first kiss happen?

• On the first date
• After a few dates
• When the moment is right
• I'm in no rush

35What do you find most attractive?

• Intelligence
• A sense of humour
• Confidence
• Kindness

36Is love at first sight real?

• It's real
• It isn't
• It's curiosity, not love
• It happened to me

37Do you prefer a letter or a message?

• A handwritten letter
• A long message
• Voice notes
• Face to face

38Do you dance?

• Anywhere
• Not in a crowd
• Only when it's just us
• Never

39What do you give someone you love?

• Something meaningful
• Something expensive
• Something you made
• An experience

40Can a long-distance relationship work?

• It can work
• It doesn't work
• If there's an end date
• I've tried it

41If you had to share a secret in front of the group, which one would you pick?

• The smallest one
• A middling one
• The biggest one
• I'd change the subject

42Would you hand your phone to someone for an hour?

• It's real
• Only someone close to me
• Never
• I'd clean it up first

43What kind of moment embarrasses you most?

• Something I said
• A time I fell over
• A text to the wrong person
• Freezing on stage

44How is it for you to tell someone "I miss you"?

• Easy
• Hard
• Never
• I hint at it

45What's the worst thing that could happen on a first date?

• Running out of things to say
• Arguing over the bill
• Bumping into an ex
• Your phone dying

46Which is harder: being rejected or rejecting?

• Rejecting someone
• Being rejected
• Both
• Neither

47Would you tell a hard truth or stay quiet?

• I speak up
• I keep quiet
• It depends
• Only if asked

48What do you do if you hear people talking about you?

• I'd confront it
• I'd pretend not to hear
• It would upset me
• I'm curious about it

49What do you do when you realise someone lied to you?

• I'd ask straight away
• I wait
• I'd quietly pull away
• I'd let it slide

50What are you most curious about in this game?

• How well they know me
• How well I know them
• Who's lying to you
• The final score